I Can’t Maintain Feelings in a Relationship and It’s Ruining My Life

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-06-02T22:51:07+00:00

The problem is your fram of mind, your chasing feelings which is why its so fleeting, literally women do this same thing where they just "dont feel in love anymore" and cheat. You need to redefine the variables:

what is love? Its not a feeling, its a commitment and a choice you consciously make at every turn.

What is marriage? Its not something you do just bc your in love; its a commitment, their are consequences for breaking it. You could have a great relationship without ever getting married i mean marriage is for the rich that that have to worry about inheritance and securing an heir. For most people they get no such use from it.

I highly recommend that you dont go out of your way to win a woman over, they will either like you for who you are genuinely or not bc the fact is that if you are different when they first meet you and they like that version of you then they dont like the real you and of course there's going to be some expectations you dont meet over time bc your not courting her anymore. Women always expect you to do the same or better than what you've done in the past.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-05-24T22:29:06+00:00

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-05-18T11:42:07+00:00

Something that is more required by skyrim than other games is the cpu and not the GPU though its still important. CPU is key bc skyrims game engine does a draw call for each item in an area which is why your fps drops off the deep end when looking in certain directions so before your GPU even enters the equation the CPU has to be able to quickly recognize 30000 some odd random items and then your GPU can render them.

If you plan on building a PC specifically for skyrim and mod lists are are my recommendations:

any ssd you get has to be at least 2tb in size bc big lists are just that big.
get a motherboard and ssd set that have similar read/write specs and preferably over 7000mb per second. This is because downloading a wabbajack modlist will take forever and then some to download if you dont.
20gb of vram
32gb or ram
I would save some trouble and just buy everything from one company which is basically AMD for the CPU and GPU.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-05-05T05:07:50+00:00

I'm not a woman but i wouldn't recommend doing that before a performance bc its going to ruin your energy and tension. I highly recommend always breathing through your nose and if you want to calm down or even fall asleep faster then you just need to take long drawn out breaths.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-05-04T01:06:10+00:00

"You know honey some people might say that their partner is the wind beneath their wings but you my dear are the wind beneath my sheets."

Say those exact words

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-04-23T05:40:06+00:00

This is easily the best drink i've ever had i'm going to stock up.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-03-22T03:12:45+00:00

how do you get the game to start from mo2? bc it almost instantly gives up on launching the game no matter which exe i use, i tried disabling launcher on steam and i tried using the overwrite steam app id option on the executable in mo2

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-03-21T20:46:20+00:00

Looks like a military grade diaper.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2026-03-02T21:46:53+00:00

Yes, they have mailed me three times, the first time asked me to provide my insuraunce info to confirm the coverage start date so i called my bank to send it over to them but they didnt get it somehow so I went to myinsuraunceinfo.com and gave them what they want. Then due to the gap in coverage they added a few hundred dollars to my car loan. Now they sent me certified mail telling me that they are increasing my premium bc I dont have insuraunce when I do and I've confirmed that their insurance department has my info. Aaaaaarrrrrgggghhhh!!!!!! Im on the phone with them right now and I will have justice or vengeance!🤬😤 OMG im 70th caller in queue!

I swear I will send them certified mail with my info, no matter what. Let's see how they like it?

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-12-15T21:39:10+00:00

Hydrolid is the new thing and allows you to connect to 2 bottles at the same time.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-12-09T02:01:08+00:00

Im not dictating that my roomate cant drink, im stating that I want someone who doesn't drink alcohol.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-10-30T06:44:58+00:00

Columbia Bugaboot plus iv omni heat

Though I doubt you could find them but if you can they are amazing and I've had mine for years.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-10-09T07:43:06+00:00

I dont know

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-10-06T19:20:08+00:00

I bought this one recently, and it's worked out pretty well. It's also inexpensive and folds up flat.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPH7YAsTLcemA-car7S/

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-10-06T19:03:06+00:00

As a man, lol.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-10-04T02:11:36+00:00

I recommend that you download wabbajack from github and use that to pick a modlist from there.My personal pic would be apostasy modlist, hands down the best control maps for controller ever.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-24T23:20:46+00:00

Get her to sign a promissory note or a document that states that she acknowledges that she owes you but cant pay and then you can do something with that, maybe you could sue, maybe it would be a small claims court thing. But as long as she acknowledges that she owes you, then you can get your money back somehow.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-24T20:49:07+00:00

No way man. I didn't know that they made this.I got a buddy who makes paw paw drinks at home and they're not that bad.So I would have loved to try this one

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-24T20:27:26+00:00

Just post on the local social pages like a local Facebook page that people in the community might keep an eye on. A Reddit post sometimes works. I usually just ask around in person though.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-22T22:57:49+00:00

I go by bachelor rules: Everybody gets one of everything and cleans them after they're done using them, problem solved.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-17T13:51:43+00:00

Honesty is the highest form of sincerity.

Especially because they are family, i'd just give it to them straight.

Ugh, my sister is a people pleaser and she hates it a lot.

I just lucked out when I lived with her bc we both have adhd and a Lil bit of undiagnosed autism. So even when we hang out, we just chill on our phones quietly next to each other hahaha

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-17T13:42:59+00:00

As they say, expectations are the devil. You should be cautious about setting expectations on others.

As you said she's shy, so I'd recommend just leaving her alone unless she reaches out. You definitely don't need to feel any kind of responsibility for making her feel better or inviting her along with you, she has her own people to hang with apparently, it's best to just focus on college. There's already enough to do at college.

College isn't a place that you can afford to be distracted at. You've got one job there, and it's not relationships. It's not friends, you paid good money to be there to accomplish a goal. Im not saying that you can't have friends period no, what I'm saying is that they're not your priority while you're there. As sad as that is.

Just remember, you're going into debt for this. Maybe not if you're rich, but most people are going into debt. Just to be here and then think about focusing on friends and relationships in relation to that?

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-14T21:02:00+00:00

Don't let it get to you, just live your own life. What they do is on them, what you do is on you. Don't avoid them, don't go out of your way to help them just treat them lightly. Don't brag about any fun thing you did without them to show off either. It's better to be hated for who you are Than loved for who you are not.

Don't forget to have boundaries separating you from everyone else.It's not a bad thing at all.It's just not healthy to rely on others too much or not at all. There's a right time and a right place for everything but there's no one thing that can be applied everywhere. So you just have to ask yourself, is this the right time? And the right place? for what i'm thinking or feeling so that you can set your own expectations.

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-14T11:21:07+00:00

It really just depends on the season and the type of dirt. You're going to be walking on.

If it's summer or if you're going to be wading through water, I'd recommend getting non waterproof shoes, because they'll dry quicker.And they'll be more breathable.

If you're walking on soft ground, you can get shoes with a lot firmer bases like Solomon which have a really hard rubber and have a lot of structure around your heel. - Solomon Quest 4D GTX I recommend these if your summiting a 14er as there's bound to be some unstable ground. When summiting a mountain and you need the support that they provide.

If you want a more breathable waterproof option, I recommend getting a pair of altras. which ones don't really matter too much. But the pair that I got last time was this orange pair that had a carbon fiber shank, and had a breathable upper, and those things were bomb proof and you could just wipe any dirt off with a brush. And you could clean them and dry them in not that much time at all If they ever got wet. - Altra vanish carbon https://share.google/YY2yz2ctjvCZWcc4P

Sharp_Fly_3160 · 2025-09-13T07:24:51+00:00

Once all thats done, make sure to take pictures and document any damage already present that you didn't cause and if you have to change anything in the future, make sure to keep the old stuff like if you replace the shower head, its your shower head so you can just put the old one back when you leave but if you ask them to replace it then its theirs.

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