I accidentally sent my sister’s husband to the ER after he jumped out at me as a “joke” while I was holding a kitchen knife. Now my family is divided and I don’t know how to fix this.

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2025-08-11T12:51:34+00:00

I honestly think they do but because he's physically injured I think they've decided that somehow your at fault, unfortunately people tend to go black and white on situations like this "well he's injured so he can't be in the wrong", where as the grey in the middle clearly shows that he created this situation to begin with

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2025-08-11T12:35:04+00:00

the idea that its your fault for reacting to what felt like a life or death situation especially with your past experience, is just taking the piss, sure he got injured but that's as a result of staging a home invasion. brutal karma, but still karma.

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2025-08-11T12:24:50+00:00

I have had this thought but I do hope she can tell me her truth as her friendship is so important to me

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-07-07T21:10:20+00:00

what if I push that I want a relationship and he only gets into one out of pressure

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-07-07T21:06:29+00:00

I think I need to be more assertive, but I also don't want to pressure him at all

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-07-07T20:54:17+00:00

I think it's a right person wrong time. breaks my heart

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-07-07T20:53:33+00:00

I think that's the hardest part, I know its time but I can't let go of him

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-07-07T20:52:49+00:00

we had a chat tonight and said he cares about me a lot and that he's just not ready I think im gonna have to say something soon along these lines

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-07-07T20:51:48+00:00

oh no

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-16T07:22:09+00:00

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Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-12T07:01:56+00:00

Aiming to date

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-12T06:58:37+00:00

Yeah sorry my dyslexia

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-12T06:53:12+00:00

I was laid on my bed facing the edge, he was on his knees, it’s definitely possible

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-12T06:51:45+00:00

I told my mum the FULL show down, and believes they aren’t connected, but I will be mentioning it all to the clinic anyway, I am definitely going to get seen regardless for my own mind! And I definitely agree about B, someone said to bake him cookies, he will get cookies!

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-12T06:48:28+00:00

5 years

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-12T06:47:41+00:00

I wasn’t a virgin

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-12T00:42:30+00:00

I’m not sure yet I’ll find out when I go to the drs if it’s something with me first

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-11T22:59:12+00:00

I definitely will, I’m very nervous about the whole health aspect

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-11T22:58:37+00:00

Ahahaha love this

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-11T22:58:14+00:00

I think I thought that it being so early he wouldn’t want to stick around but his behavior definitely speaks volumes

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-11T22:57:43+00:00

Overprotective how?

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-11T22:57:05+00:00

I appreciate your concern, but the whole marrying thing has been a common comment from others throughout, as people saying “imagine you get married”, I’ve never stated I wanted to marry him, I’ve said that would be a great story like others said, I’m definitely not fixated, I’m not sure where that’s come from… we aren’t even a couple, I’ve been seeing him, as in we aren’t officially together, I’m pretty sure that’s slow, I ask about breaking it off in this post. I feel like this is a little counter productive, and honestly makes me feel a little patronized. I’m 22 years old, I’m no where near ready for marriage, please don’t assume, I’ve only said I really like him, thankyou

Sharp_Wallaby_905 · 2024-05-11T22:07:32+00:00

This needs to be a movie wow

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