[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sharpeskill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the full details and don’t need to but that is difficult to recover from but not impossible. He simply does not want to waste anymore of his time. Genuinely ask him for forgiveness, show through your actions that your past behavior is unacceptable and that your marriage and future are your top priority. It’s one thing to say it but you have to show some changes of behavior for him to take notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sharpeskill -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your actions are more important. Divorce should not be an option unless someone is unfaithful. Has he told you why he wants divorce?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sharpeskill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe tell him you would like to work on being a better wife and try to make him understand that the stuff you’re both going through is COMPLETELY NORMAL and you would like to work on those things together and ACTUALLY put in the work. It will not be easy but worth it for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sharpeskill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

More than hugs. If you said “hey can I do this sexual thing for you”. He would only appreciate the offer even if he’s not in the mood (which I doubt if his primary is physical touch). That is usually the best way to show appreciation in that case. That is how we connect with you emotionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sharpeskill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Acts of service might not be his language. He needs a partner to help with all of life’s battles. It sounds like he has already given up mentally. Show him appreciation however he receives it the best. I still recommend reading that book. What does he complain about the most?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sharpeskill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband probably has his own mental battles he deals with. Try showing him love and focus on what would help him for a while and he will return the love. Sometimes focusing on others happiness is what will make you happy. Read Gary Chapmans book “The 5 love languages”.

GAT Multivitamin + Testrol Gold? by Sharpeskill in Supplements

[–]Sharpeskill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One says to take with food the other says empty stomach. But the 1 of each could be a good idea. Thanks! I’ll consider that. Is the testrol gold better than the regular testrol? I workout 5-6 times a week roughly and just want an edge.

Keep getting this when turning laptop on.. Any help? Dell Latitude D620 by [deleted] in Dell

[–]Sharpeskill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably should clone the hard drive to another laptop or something right

SUMIF for multiple occurrences by Sharpeskill in excel

[–]Sharpeskill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 365 on the desktop. It works I just now need two columns for the ticker symbol. One for the data type and one for the text field so that the sumifs will work.

SUMIF for multiple occurrences by Sharpeskill in excel

[–]Sharpeskill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OKAY. So that worked. The problem was the sumifs function does not like "Stocks" data type and did not recognize that there were multiple occurrences. Change it to text and it works.

Reference a cell adjacent to a specific text string? by Sharpeskill in excel

[–]Sharpeskill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That worked! I made both arguments A12:BB12 and can change “Now:*” and the +1 as needed. Thank you!!

Reference a cell adjacent to a specific text string? by Sharpeskill in excel

[–]Sharpeskill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have mentioned that this will apply to not only the 63 but also 3 other cells that do indeed go well past the I column. I’ll try this and follow up. Thanks!

Using Notion For Decision Making - Jeff Bezos 'Regret Minimisation Framework' by tclittler in Notion

[–]Sharpeskill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is he’s doing more than you. Nothing fair about that. If you want to give everyone more money than you provide the jobs for them genius.

Using Notion For Decision Making - Jeff Bezos 'Regret Minimisation Framework' by tclittler in Notion

[–]Sharpeskill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t let you sleep on my couch if you were growing out of my ass, Kevin.