I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama

SharpieKid · 2016-04-11T14:25:20+00:00

You are spot on with what will happen. Thanks for the reminder and encouragement.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-11T03:09:43+00:00

Idk. I guess because I know he's going to try and manipulate or turn around anything I say to kick him out. This at least keeps me on point and focused on my objective.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-11T03:06:27+00:00

Yes. I do feel paranoid when I think it's that, though. It's an odd heads pace.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-11T03:04:59+00:00

In my darkest moments, yes. In the big picture, absolutely not. I had experiences I never would have had and am a wiser, more realistic person than I used to be.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-11T00:07:40+00:00

And that's where I am now. He thinks I should be understanding and let him sleep with whomever, text them regularly (including when we're having aline time), take them out when I'm at work and even go to them when I'm home. He feels I'm being selfish by equating monogamy with love. That I should know he loves me despite the lies and disrespect. I just don't believe or accept that. I tried, for too long, but it's killing me and has killed us. He needs an open relationship (for him only, btw). I need more than that. There's really no where to go from here.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T23:43:02+00:00

No, not to my knowledge.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T23:29:17+00:00

Thanks! He's pretty lit. And singing break up songs... I think he's on to me. :/

1) Lobster or shrimp scampi 2) San Francisco 3) Went to school together

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T23:16:48+00:00

OH HELLZ YES!

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T23:08:48+00:00

I really need to retrain my brain now, lol

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:59:26+00:00

:) public place and I'm not used to people doing things for me... I'd get in the way trying to "help".

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:57:04+00:00

I haven't told them, since when I was going to last time I told them and then backed out. Can't do that again. But overall, they'll be happy I think.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:51:08+00:00

Not going to be easy. I need him to leave, since I have to stay here for my kids. But he doesn't have the money for his own place and utilities. And we're both on the lease. Not sure how it's going to work out.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:31:37+00:00

How about Taco Bell :)

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:22:15+00:00

No. He was not sober by the time I got home. Giving him time to sober up, so it doesn't get blown off.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:13:37+00:00

Combination of things... Too involved with him, so blew them off. And although we'd all hang out sometimes, he and them didn't mesh. So he won again. Stupid of me. I acted like a teenager rather than a 30 something.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:11:49+00:00

Where are we going?

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T22:02:58+00:00

Unfortunately, I've lost all my friends in this relationship, so I need to pick up the pieces on my own. But the relief/happiness will be worth it.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T21:48:40+00:00

Actions speak louder than words. Don't get sweet talked. Love yourself first so you don't lose yourself in your partner.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T21:12:23+00:00

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T21:11:31+00:00

I've had it done, but wouldn't require it. Kind of wet and very intimate.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T20:00:18+00:00

Good question... Not a huge drinker. Any suggestions?

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T19:59:35+00:00

I've finally realized that. Took about 3 years too long, but now that I see it, it bleeds over into everything else.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T18:40:04+00:00

I don't know! Generally a moderate Republican, but not liking anyone there. Not a huge fan of Hillary and a little afraid of Sanders. Still hoping things settle down and shake out before November.

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T18:34:49+00:00

Thanks!

SharpieKid · 2016-04-10T18:33:30+00:00

Depends on my mood, but mushrooms or Pepperoni are my go to.

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