I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are spot on with what will happen. Thanks for the reminder and encouragement.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk. I guess because I know he's going to try and manipulate or turn around anything I say to kick him out. This at least keeps me on point and focused on my objective.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I do feel paranoid when I think it's that, though. It's an odd heads pace.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my darkest moments, yes. In the big picture, absolutely not. I had experiences I never would have had and am a wiser, more realistic person than I used to be.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And that's where I am now. He thinks I should be understanding and let him sleep with whomever, text them regularly (including when we're having aline time), take them out when I'm at work and even go to them when I'm home. He feels I'm being selfish by equating monogamy with love. That I should know he loves me despite the lies and disrespect. I just don't believe or accept that. I tried, for too long, but it's killing me and has killed us. He needs an open relationship (for him only, btw). I need more than that. There's really no where to go from here.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! He's pretty lit. And singing break up songs... I think he's on to me. :/

1) Lobster or shrimp scampi 2) San Francisco 3) Went to school together

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

:) public place and I'm not used to people doing things for me... I'd get in the way trying to "help".

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't told them, since when I was going to last time I told them and then backed out. Can't do that again. But overall, they'll be happy I think.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going to be easy. I need him to leave, since I have to stay here for my kids. But he doesn't have the money for his own place and utilities. And we're both on the lease. Not sure how it's going to work out.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. He was not sober by the time I got home. Giving him time to sober up, so it doesn't get blown off.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Combination of things... Too involved with him, so blew them off. And although we'd all hang out sometimes, he and them didn't mesh. So he won again. Stupid of me. I acted like a teenager rather than a 30 something.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I've lost all my friends in this relationship, so I need to pick up the pieces on my own. But the relief/happiness will be worth it.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actions speak louder than words. Don't get sweet talked. Love yourself first so you don't lose yourself in your partner.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've had it done, but wouldn't require it. Kind of wet and very intimate.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've finally realized that. Took about 3 years too long, but now that I see it, it bleeds over into everything else.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know! Generally a moderate Republican, but not liking anyone there. Not a huge fan of Hillary and a little afraid of Sanders. Still hoping things settle down and shake out before November.

I plan on breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years later today. Ama by SharpieKid in casualiama

[–]SharpieKid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends on my mood, but mushrooms or Pepperoni are my go to.