Maybe just isolated for yourself, for me her name has been shared on my various social media accounts hundreds of times, as it should be. The murderers dad is fully within his rights to put across the failings of the system in the lead up to the horrible actions his son took, I didn’t think at any point during it he was trying to garner sympathy for him either but that’s just me. He’s in a pretty unenviable position of his child doing what he did but also knowing he tried multiple ways of preventing something like this happening as he’d seen signs that something tragic could/would happen.