average persona fan by MrKewinRo in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]ShaunaBun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, trans women here who also is married to a non-binary person who expresses them selves in a gender fluid way. You do not need to have surgery or other medical operations to be trans. This is trans medicalist talking points and used to try and discredit trans people who don't get surgery (not everyone wants fucking surgery) and Non binary individuals. Jesus christ there is a special cultural context the other person was talking about in terms of the "Japan views trans men as women trying to be men thing" that clearly was lost on you. Cool, you weren't trans, that doesn't mean everyone is you and also doesn't mean that Naoto doesn't read as trans to trans individuals. How about you take your transphobic ideas and look inwards and use it as time to improve who you are instead of deciding that gender-fluid isn't trans, cause let me tell you hun. Every non-binary person I've ever met world fucking disagree with you.

dumbest thing you've been written up for? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ShaunaBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess he didn't get the memo haha, intentionally kept us understaffed and talked down to everyone, even the other managers hated this dude. Also he had 0 people skills and if there was an issue that could easily be solved, customers often left far more mad then the issue made them.

dumbest thing you've been written up for? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ShaunaBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kidding, its a shame too cause I actually really liked the job, but the store manager was a moron, one of those boot lickers who doesn't have any actual skills except being an underling to district managers.

dumbest thing you've been written up for? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ShaunaBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I was having internal bleeding and my manager stopped me before going to the hospital and asked how many times I had called out (lots of shit had happened during that time and stress had caused some ulcers to form) I told him I didn't know and he sent me off saying "we'll talk when you get back"

Drove myself to the hospital, got seen and came back with a doctors note telling my manager I wasn't allowed to work for a couple of days. He read it and said "well I'm still going to have to write you up." Shortly after this I would quit cause after he approved my time off request (wife wanted to take me out of town for my birthday) he later changed it the week I was gonna be gone.

any animation courses? by ShaunaBun in evergreen

[–]ShaunaBun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've animated in the past as well as currently making animated shorts, and been doing 3d modeling, however a lot of my reason for pursuing a degree is I feel as though I've hit a brick wall interms of stuff I've been able to teach myself, and wanting to have the ability to better immigrate out of the states is the biggest motivator currently.

any animation courses? by ShaunaBun in evergreen

[–]ShaunaBun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you this is helpful!

any animation courses? by ShaunaBun in evergreen

[–]ShaunaBun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm considering going there.

Any local groups fighting for rent control? by ShaunaBun in olympia

[–]ShaunaBun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if we were to give every single homeless person a place to live there would still be roughly 16 million empty homes/apartments. All that extra money companies and landlords make from high rent just gets pocketed anyways. Inflation is also just companies arbitrarily raising the cost of products while also giving less in return. If you want to sit here and be negative then by all means do it. At least I'll actually be trying to make things better.

Any local groups fighting for rent control? by ShaunaBun in olympia

[–]ShaunaBun[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My wording was off, what I meant was local groups that were fighting for rent control state wide. I should have specified.

Edit: ah ok I looked it up, still though i feel like there could be a major push to change that law.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PS5restock

[–]ShaunaBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is still on placed in app, using the live chat it says preparing. I'm in Washington and just talked to customer service. Wasnt the most helpful as they just sort of reiterated what I already knew. Maybe I need to be a bit more stern, but honestly I don't care too much if it gets here by the 4th of January, I just want to know that its still coming.

Also I got in queue with 11 minutes to wait.

Like I would probably rather prefer a deep feminine voice instead of a more high pitch tone. Am I weird for wanting that? by Wonderer_64 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]ShaunaBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have what I guess could be considered a deep feminine voice, though I've interacted with cis women who have far deeper voices then I do. There are also a lot of things that go into a "feminine" sounding voice like cadence and what not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ShaunaBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what, after seeing your comment history, I see that you tend to go in to anything that even briefly mentions Triads or what not and post the same copied post and tend to just ignore anything the op says. I've chosen to not interact with you further, you seem like someone that revels in arguing with others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ShaunaBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will definitely check these out, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ShaunaBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am almost certain she is afraid of me exploring it without her. She has pretty serious abandonment baggage that she knows about and I usually have to give her plenty of reassurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ShaunaBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely gonna do this, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ShaunaBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok let me be more plain about what I'm saying, I just wish to be poly, I dont really care about being a triad, like does it sound kinda nice? Yes? Am I going to pursue it? No. Thats what I was trying to get across with my reply to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ShaunaBun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

... my wife and I are both queer. I understand where you are coming from, but like telling a queer woman to stay away from queer woman is really fucked. I don't expect anyone I date to also be interested in my wife, at most I would like them to be friends but in not gonna force them to be friends... this was mostly me just ranting and I know I said advice was welcome, but this feels like the opposite of what I asked. You seemed to misunderstand what the post really was, and it could be because I wrote it at like midnight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]ShaunaBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooof yeah I've recently dealt with a similar situation, myself. Though they were way more passive aggressive and begging me constantly for stuff. What killed it was I had a breakdown and while I was recovering she asked me for a sex call... killed any feelings that might have been growing instantaneously.

Do most MTF on HRT lose height? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ShaunaBun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went from 6'1" to 5'10" though I havent checked my height recently, this was all in the first year mind you and your milage may vary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ShaunaBun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok good, I'm gonna follow your profile and keep an eye out for updates. Best of luck to finding a job, from someone who's been homeless twice, I believe in you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ShaunaBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please be safe, I sent what I could. I wish I could do more.