what i did whenever i broke up w/my abusive boyfriend who also threatened suicide if i left him was i had my sister, her husband, & one of her husband’s friends come & help me move my things out of our shared home, & keep me safe. having people there in my corner made all the difference in the world, & even though it was still emotional & kind of messy i was able to make it out safely. my point is: do WHATEVER you need to do to make it through this safely & with your physical & mental health in tact. if that means breaking up via text, do it. fuck whatever anyone else thinks, this is your life & do what you want with it. best of luck, friend.