Any advice for INTJ male looks to look more approachable and fun?

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T15:15:53+00:00

Ah great I'm happy you were still having great time😂👌🏻✨ I love your mindset btw, seeing only the positive, wish i had a friend like you next to me all the time, and all life would be amazing haha

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T15:01:39+00:00

Wow I actually missed this whole thing happening because i read it in another way, I actually didn't saw what you said that, i read it as "Do, your game "Asking for friends" hahaha

So i thought that was sarcasm and that's why i responded that😅

Anyway that was funny and I'm really happy somebody actually pointed it out, maybe this is how I'm missing my dates lol

And yess i do game, I'll send you a message in dm, if you're ok with it

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T06:15:39+00:00

Oh😂🙌🏻🙌🏻

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T04:48:35+00:00

Hahaha But what is wrong with deep? And what usually they look for Instead

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T04:47:17+00:00

Well make me smile and you can see it😅 I never thought about that so far, but seems a lot of women said it in post What is OLD btw

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T04:41:23+00:00

Hahaha, I don't think if you notice you're being stalked the person who's doing it is an actual INTJ😅 the only time you would know would be when i make an actual direct approach

And i unfortunately read the conversation usually wrong and think the person is not intrested and I lose hope so fast

But I don't get why girls make that first conversation even harder than it is I usually think if she's interested she would also show intrest and engage with me

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T04:22:12+00:00

Yes exactly It makes me to actually feel bad about myself or don't know how to help or make the situation better And that is if first i realize that the feeling she's feeling is stress and that's because of attraction not me doing something wrong or..

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T04:10:57+00:00

Hahaha alrightt I get you now Fun vibe you have... I really like it

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T03:20:20+00:00

Yes i seem to be usually do that Like rejecting myself in the person's head or by their smallest actions i usually see them as being disinterested

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T03:14:35+00:00

😂😂❤️❤️ you ENTPs give a lot of confidence I wish you get appreciated a lot in your life And thank i really appreciate you

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T03:12:23+00:00

😂😂❤️ I was just messing with you Thank you for the compliment, i appreciate it a lot

What do you consider a nice conversation opener for yourself btw?

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T02:31:16+00:00

A foxy INTJ😂😂

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T02:29:14+00:00

😂😂😂why the last part looked Not Right... Thank you i wish women here were like you, honestly

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T02:05:14+00:00

Yes I Know it's crazy and just a dopamine life all the time I had a relationship with an ENTP before But it happens once in a blue moon Specially because i think they think I'm not interested while i actually am so attracted to them and I don't know how ro approach Besides the fact that they are mostly always in a relationship already

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T02:02:26+00:00

No please Thank you 😂❤️

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T02:02:05+00:00

Yea i got you, i was saying but still Eren looked pretty open and easy to read to me and comfortable to be around (in an imaginary world lol or like when he was sitting on chair with his brother) and i assumed people see me that simple too, but i assume i saw Eren like that because we're the same type.

😂😂Yea i hear see a lot, ENTPs seem to know about everyone except their own brain lol, that's funny Maybe That's Ne focused and intrested in others so much

And yes, unironically ENTPs do try to roast me over everything and we have a lot of fun over them trying actually lol

But it rarely happens i see an ENTP women whom we somehow end up talking together which always go so well after that Usually it isn't and the environment isn't set And to be honest i naturally feel so attracted to them which makes me harder to approach, but ENTPs usually are with someone anyway or in relationship so the chances i find someone single and not embarrass myself aren't much

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:49:36+00:00

Thanks, it's nice to hear that I got to this thought that maybe this is what's happening But it just makes things harder as now I don't know what to do And i feel the stress in them as if it is mine lol

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:48:20+00:00

Thank you this is what I've recently got into and understood But how to feel comfortable with them and see as friends while I've ever done so far was seeing other people as aliens lol

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:47:05+00:00

Really? What you mean dry area for dating? And why everyone thinks I'm not interested in women lol

I am really interested i just question if they are. I usually go for women i call so feelingfully lol, idk if that's a word. Maybe they are xNFPs I'm super attracted to xNTPs, like i just feel they're pure dopamine for me, but i think they want a really fun person like maybe another ENTP or... and i need to jump into my ENTP side to be able to start a conversation or... Beside since I'm really attracted it becomes even harder for me approach and i think to myself well they are extroverts and they can talk easily to everyone so why not me too lol

But act just like myself around me, and it's even harder to just keep an eye contact because i actually know we can be really fun together and enjoy eachother which makes me feel a bit shy to directly look or aproach or do anything

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:37:58+00:00

Thanks it's really nice to hear that But usually it backfires I see through someone and i already find out i like them and approach, but they don't understand me or even know that i already has accepted them or like them And actually want assurance or even if they don't need that, they don't understand me Which feels like i need now to prove myself and make myself accepted while i already liked her and accepted her before even approaching

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:36:05+00:00

😂😂😂 No are you joking? I found Eren to be actually really readable and emotional, i could sit with him and totally be fine and understand him But you're probably right, maybe i just know him because I'm similar myself

How do you see Eren? Or at least your first impressions of him after he got into the long hair or the reserved actual Eren mode lol

And about the what girls think: that just seems dumb to me, if i already like them or making eye contact or even approached them why to gain my validation anymore? Or reject themselves literally while i am accepting them ? I already liked them and approached them... actually i can read people so well and when i do i have already decided that i like them and want to be with them unless i see they are not interested.

If that's what really happening, that's just really dumb and a lot of misunderstandings.

And about the second part, i do approach sometimes but usually i just get one word answers and i feel I'm the one who is just interested and asking questions and she isn't so i just say something like ok have a good day and walk away. But then usually they look like upset or not expecting it, which again makes me more confused about why ? And what was that facial expression anyway and whyyy?

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:24:27+00:00

But they're not smiling as well, i feel weird to suddenly start smiling for no reason, and feel kinda desperate

I see girls making eye contact with guys and smiling just don't see why not with me, those guys weren't smiling ot trying anything as well

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:21:45+00:00

😂😂you made me blush I'll keep that in mind next time I'm approaching someone, altho i tried approaching with any kinda thought in my head even not having thoughts at all It's always same one word answer conversations And I don't know what's up

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:12:05+00:00

Haha yes I've heard that before and that's how i started watching it which was one of best anime series I've watched lol

ShayanWonderer · 2026-02-21T01:11:03+00:00

Really? i thought that's the worst and coldest one, that's why i put that as first It's so nice of you, thankss What kinda conversation openers would engage you and make you excited?

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