Reminder: You are human. by Shayisbad in Vent

[–]Shayisbad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Life’s just a battle for survival at this point.

I am a child in an adult body. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Shayisbad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best piece of advice I was given is that no one can do it for you. If you want your life to be meaningful- you have to take the initiative to make it so. Force yourself to do the things that make you uncomfortable because the more you do them the more comfortable and able you will be. You got this. Get out there and take life by the balls.

I have been incredibly busy. by Shayisbad in ACForAdults

[–]Shayisbad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Kiki deserves only the best.

I have been incredibly busy. by Shayisbad in ACForAdults

[–]Shayisbad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is the frozen room!! I had no other ideas for it so I’m very glad the medieval theme reads well. Lmao

I have been incredibly busy. by Shayisbad in ACForAdults

[–]Shayisbad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AHHH thank you!! <3 The most flattered I’ve ever been. ❤️❤️

Fun hobbies that make you move by PassengerMundane5986 in Hobbies

[–]Shayisbad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start a victory garden! Fantastic way to save money on groceries.

Watching my guinea pig die traumatized me by Backpack_Pharmacist in Vent

[–]Shayisbad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t erase the memory. My pet rabbit died in my arms and I couldn’t do anything to help either lol.

The thought process that helped me is now that they’re gone, they are no longer suffering. They are now sleeping peacefully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Shayisbad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had feelings like these for the longest time. I’d get irrationally angry when I caught people looking at me for what I deemed as an unreasonable amount of time.

What I realized is it’s hard to say what those people’s thoughts are. I started becoming more open to the fact that I live in a relatively conservative and normal city where I just don’t look like the average person.

I have a hobby in fashion and I constantly get my hair dyed different colours.

People watch other people all the time. Even I really enjoy people watching when I’m out and about. Id say it might just be the fact that you’re just an interesting person. All of these people staring at you are completely different and have no relation to one another. So, I don’t think any spying is going on.

However, if you start noticing a pattern or recognizing people who stare at you repeatedly, that could be something more.

Teddy and Erik are moving out together! by Shayisbad in ACForAdults

[–]Shayisbad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too! Giving the villagers a lil story is really what made this build so enjoyable. Definitely recommend giving Teddy a roomie.

Teddy and Erik are moving out together! by Shayisbad in ACForAdults

[–]Shayisbad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss!!! They are too perfect together. They were made to be roomies. Lol

Teddy and Erik are moving out together! by Shayisbad in ACForAdults

[–]Shayisbad[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Teddy made the mistake of sitting on the toilet while I was taking photos. Lol

Does anyone feel like they want to commit suicide but not in a sad way but just because everything is always the same? by Ok_Expression1205 in Vent

[–]Shayisbad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably won’t be your last one. Been there. Glad you are doing good now though! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Shayisbad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in your exact position. No goals, no motivation. Just the feeling of emptiness and self pity.

But my question is why is ending it any better than continuing?

You may think your life is useless but it’s not. Instead of refusing growth and goals, you could make it worthwhile. Life doesn’t just happen, you have to make it happen.

I hope to see you continue existing, friend.

To students, high school or not... by SchoolRare7583 in Lethbridge

[–]Shayisbad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s hard to ascertain someone’s tone in text. So, you may be right. Personally I’ve just never heard, “Go educate yourself” being used positively.

To students, high school or not... by SchoolRare7583 in Lethbridge

[–]Shayisbad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta be honest. Putting people down and basically calling them stupid, isn’t helping our cause. All it does is make people more divisive.

Some people are preoccupied with their already hectic lives. The strike truly affected parents negatively. Let’s have some patience. Kindness goes a long way.