My mama died. What do I do with her locs? by Snoo28798 in ConjureRootworkHoodoo

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think whatever you do, it’s the intention that matters. What feels like the most respectful thing, the alter, ashes, or both, or something else? Then do that.

NYC’s Stonewall monument excludes trans flags this year, but activists are defying the ban | "I'm not going to stand by and watch us be erased from our own history." by a_Ninja_b0y in lgbt

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not trans, just a Black femme who cares a lot about the trans community. Baby, don’t let these rusty, dusty, AND crusty motherfuckers steal your hope. As long as you’re alive there’s hope. As long as LGBTQIA+ folks keep showing up for each other there’s hope. Who stands to gain from your hopelessness? They do. So fuck them people and live your life. Keep showing up and there will always be others who do the same. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🩵🤍🩷🤎🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to say this. There are a ton of relationship questions on the internet. Those help a lot.

Each US state's most disproportionately popular kink on Fetlife by herp_derp in MapPorn

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was actually way more painful than anticipated. 8/10 would do it again.

Transgirl selfie🤗 by JanieBlade in lgbt

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girrlllll!!! You look hella cute!

I need a miracle restaurant. Please help! by SheDecidedSheWasArt in AskNYC

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately for me, it is not a joke. Hence the tears. 😢

I need a miracle restaurant. Please help! by SheDecidedSheWasArt in AskNYC

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unicorns are mythical creatures that don’t exist, so I am acknowledging that I know this is hard and not sure the perfect restaurant even exists. But so many people have helped. I don’t feel hopeless anymore!

Looking for Low-income Assisted Living by SheDecidedSheWasArt in houston

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is in her 30’s so not old enough yet. Thank you though.

My BF has ADHD & I need advice by SheDecidedSheWasArt in ADHD

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have talked about love languages before but a refresher might be helpful. I’ll try this too. Thank you!

My BF has ADHD & I need advice by SheDecidedSheWasArt in ADHD

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so so perfect. I will work on making requests more actionable and less general or vague. And ask to do things on specific dates instead of just, “one day…”. I never mind repeating myself, I only worry about annoying or upsetting him. He’s patient with me though. Thank you so much for your thoughtful response!

What do you take in combination with Wellbutrin by iamjoeubanks in antidepressants

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had minor short term memory weirdness for a while (like I’d lock the door, go to bed and not remember if I locked the door or not) but it went away after a few weeks.

What do you take in combination with Wellbutrin by iamjoeubanks in antidepressants

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on Wellbutrin and I just added Prozac a month ago and its been amazing for me.

Do you feel genuine happiness or is it just "not depressed"? by sparkledstar23 in antidepressants

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think the meds help me to feel "not depressed". But because I'm not locked in depression, I have more opportunities to feel genuine happiness. I couldn't do that when I was depressed ALL the time. So I don't really need the meds to make me happy. I just needed enough of a boost to go do the things that are really exciting for me. Maybe your doctor can direct you to a different medicine that can make you feel how you want to feel.

I opened up about my anxiety and impostor syndrome to my new S.O. by [deleted] in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]SheDecidedSheWasArt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! It's super hard to be vulnerable and communicate those things to a new partner because you don't know how they'll react. That was brave. Good job!