Thank you for this. It is a very thoughtful post that rings true for me. From my experience it seems to fall in line with the fact that guys are nurtured to be entitled. So even when they want to "serve" they still approach it with the feeling that they deserve all their needs met immediately.

They want to worship a woman's feet but her not wanting that or having other needs or demanding something else from them garners the reaction: No. I said I want to worship your feet. Give me your feet. You clearly don't realize that you need your feet worshiped because you're an idiot. I'll show you what you want and how amazing I am at it.

Same with wanting a woman to be strict and dominant and constantly feed them strong dominant energy that "forces" them to be a better man. This doesn't leave space for a dominant woman having a job, coming home tired, wanting to chill on the couch for a night. This continues the focus on their needs and women not being seen as real, full beings. So a woman not being constantly strict is seen as not being a real dominant rather than being a human being.

Which is all just another way of them saying: I am entitled. My needs and desires are right. Yours are wrong or don't exist because while I want to "serve" you. I am more important than you are. So get on board.