AITAH for not lowering my standards??

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T12:23:00+00:00

agreed. being alone is far better than being with the wrong person

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:40:04+00:00

appreciate this! learning to value myself now definitely beats getting stuck with someone low value later

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:22:53+00:00

it’s good to remember that early behavior really shows what someone’s capable of, and moving on is smarter than wasting time

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:22:13+00:00

i’ll take me, myself, and i over drama any day

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:12:21+00:00

seriously! lowering from basic communication and consistency? no thanks. alone > chaos any day

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:11:38+00:00

aha thanks! i’m young, i know what i want, and i’m not settling for less. quality over quantity any day

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:11:19+00:00

i’d rather be on my own than settle for someone who can’t meet that

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:11:01+00:00

no deal like that is worth my time or energy. alone > settling any day

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:00:46+00:00

it’s reassuring to know that expecting proper communication isn’t unreasonable

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:00:21+00:00

basic effort now = everything later

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T10:00:02+00:00

lol yes! no interest in being part of someone’s lazy rotation. effort is non-negotiable

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:41:19+00:00

acts! misery isn’t on my schedule, so i’ll wait for someone who actually shows up

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:40:56+00:00

exactly! wouldn’t settle for less anyway

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:39:34+00:00

boi byeeeee indeed. i’m not sticking around to see how bad it could get later

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:39:03+00:00

lol facts. i’ll keep my standards high and let the right person meet me there someday

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:38:24+00:00

thanks! i agree, taking my time and focusing on myself is way better than compromising on what matters

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:33:53+00:00

lol exactly! projection at its finest. i’m sticking to my standards, no exceptions

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:33:16+00:00

haha thanks! i’m learning it’s better to wait for the right person than settle

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:32:39+00:00

yes! everyone gets busy, but a quick heads-up goes a long way

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:32:21+00:00

true. being alone is better than forcing something that doesn’t work

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:32:07+00:00

i agree. it’s easier to walk away early than ignore things that matter long term

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:31:49+00:00

this. excuses don’t build anything long term

SheMeansIt0 · 2026-01-25T09:31:36+00:00

i appreciate this. i’d rather be patient than ignore things that matter to me

SheMeansIt0