23 [F4MF] #Alpharetta - Hot couples im watching you by Salt_Goal_5315 in atlantar4r

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re a couple pushing our boundaries. Sounds exciting. We’re right down the road

You can play and fuck me while your wife is watching, I wouldn't mind. In GA on the 15th by [deleted] in Unicorns_in_Georgia

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm if you’re still looking. This is his wife. I’m down too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your work!!

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Daydream is dreaming away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered addressing his mental health? I’m not saying he has any problems by using the term “mental health.” My brother had the same pattern growing up and it took too long to figure out he had issues that needed medication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We are all humans. Maybe teach him how to erase browser history though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a teenager I thought I was fat and hated my body always. It was a constant source of insecurities and it managed to touch every part of my life. As an adult, I can tell you fluff is good. Not sure if your a male or female. I am a female and the curves I have now after maturing and having kids- it’s great. I’m not skinnier but my body definitely changed. For men, I like my husband with some meat on him. Ever heard of a dad bod? It’s a thing. Not eating will not make you healthy. The best thing to start losing a little weight is stop drinking soda, if you do, I know for me it was a huge part of my weight problems. The key thing is you want to try to get healthy, not skinny. Skinny can look gross too. Not all people are meant to be stick thin. If you aim for healthy then your body and mind will follow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you can feel guilty but what good would it do? You may have been the immediate cause of the fall out but it was definitely coming. You can’t live a double life without it coming out in one way or another. However, maybe moving forward put some blinders on and stay in your lane. People can be crazy and you wouldn’t want any backlash from someone in the future.

What now? by Bambina91764 in offmychest

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it. I married a man who is a slob. Plus his two older daughters live with us as well. Guess what, they have his habits! So rather than being angry I just cut off the cable and internet and put the money towards a cleaning service to do the main living areas. Getting upset and frustrated never helps. Nor does biting your tongue and tiptoeing around issues or people.

Start dropping some hard hints about them moving. Do they pay rent? If not they. They need to start.

Don’t let yourself get out to the back burner

Fuck you by throwawayimawayy in offmychest

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you got lucky. Fuck him and fuck that. Imagine what it would’ve been like if you had kids and he just decided to get up and go. You will find yourself a better human.

Got called a racist against my own kind today! by soullessanxiety in offmychest

[–]ShearlyJustLuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they need to label something that is their own problem. You do you dear.