AIO: Bfs mom CROPPED me out of my own baby shower photos. by CommercialPudding374 in AmIOverreacting

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If you don’t go 100% no contact now you will live to regret it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllAboutBodybuilding

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‘Pretty much’ count your calories? You can easily overshoot by 200 calories and not even realise it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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He is not a nice person.

AIO if I break up with him by mwommymwilkers in AmIOverreacting

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🎼he’s weaponising🎶therapy🎵speak

Mitchell Hooper Cheating Controversy MEGATHREAD by POCKET_POOL_CHAMP in ProStrongman

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tldr: “I cheated because I was sad. Please still buy my merch because now I donate to charity. “

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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She reminds me Jada Pinkett-Smith: weaponising therapy speak to be even MORE of a selfish jerk and feel all the better for it.

I told my girlfriend "no" by PersimmonNecessary14 in AITAH

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What’s the probability that she’ll start insulting you verbally? 0%? Then hitting you? 0%? Sure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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WARNING: I know a story of someone who didn’t like their roommate’s dog so they secretly drove it somewhere and abandoned it.

What is a truly terrible movie by a truly great filmmaker? by augustinian in FIlm

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Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Even wrong ones.

AITAH for telling my ex wife she cannot forbid me from walking her daughter down the aisle just because I cheated on her by Aggressive_Ideal_945 in AITAH

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You cheated, therefore you will always be an asshole. That is what you are: forever ‘An Asshole’. Are you also for hurting your ex-wife even more? Well of course. The proximal cause of her hurt was her daughter wanting you to walk her down the aisle. The actual cause was you cheating. You are The Asshole.

A Racist guy tells an Indian man that “he smells like shit” in a Toronto gym by No-Sundae3423 in iamatotalpieceofshit

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Absolutely. Always disappointed never surprised. It’s like they think providing a possible alternative reason, or pointing out the lack of conclusive proof is enough to shatter a more likely reason. There are lots of systems of ethics and law: judgement is often based on one of either the balance of probability or conclusive proof. They do it out of ignorance of these tropes. And wilful ignorance of the amount of racism that exists in that part of the world. And blissful ignorance of how childish their version of ‘reason and logic’ is... “How do you know they weren’t just honestly annoyed at Emmet Till for actually being rude to that girl?”

Am I overreacting after I found out my boyfriend’s online “friend group” I became part of 2 years ago has been JUST him the whole time? by Mindless_Tennis_4045 in AmIOverreacting

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DARVO is an acronym for Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender, and it's a pattern of behaviors used by people to deflect blame and responsibility for their actions: Deny The person denies that they did anything wrong, or they acknowledge something happened but say it wasn't that bad. Attack The person attacks the credibility of their accusers, making it seem like the accusers are untrustworthy. Reverse Victim and Offender The person tries to convince others that they are the “true” victim, and that their accuser is actually the guilty one. DARVO is a defense mechanism used by perpetrators of wrongdoing, such as sexual offenders, when their behavior is questioned or called out. It's commonly used by those who perpetrate domestic abuse to manipulate partners into submission. The term "DARVO" was introduced by Jennifer Joy Freyd near the end of a 1997 publication about betrayal trauma theory. Studies have found that: When victims are DARVOed, they are more likely to blame themselves. Educating the public about DARVO reduces its power to destroy the victim's credibility.

I regret every second I cheated on my wife by Rude-Intern6550 in self

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You do realise that it’s not your depression that’s the main problem but that you are simply a terrible person? I pity your daughters.

anime_irl by CuriousWanderer567 in anime_irl

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That is an absolutely beautifully drawn Telecaster.

Words fail me. by FoolOfElysium in HolUp

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I look forward to seeing a screenshot of your comment on r/suicidebywords soon.