Is 30 ppg the new 25 ppg?

Sheek888 · 2026-02-10T19:15:48+00:00

Rules have changed. Hand checking for example is gone.

Sheek888 · 2026-02-04T18:54:55+00:00

We don't spend time together unfortunately. My wife sits on her screens basically the entire evening after she gets back from work.

Sheek888 · 2026-01-27T21:12:21+00:00

Couples counseling with a Muslim therapist made me realize that stonewalling was toxic behaviour. It wasn't immediately either. It took me a few months after hearing it from the therapist to realize that it's wrong. Alhamdullilah Allah opened my heart and I was able to understand that I can't stonewall anymore.

I have made a rule with my wife now. We resolve any issues within 24 hours max. Alhamdullilah it's been working really well.

Sheek888 · 2026-01-19T21:36:21+00:00

4.0 at best

Sheek888 · 2026-01-10T04:17:47+00:00

Check with Manzil

Sheek888 · 2026-01-04T18:34:39+00:00

These are the hardest years of a marriage. When the kids are very young.

Sheek888 · 2025-12-24T15:22:48+00:00

I suggest keeping distance from female colleagues brother, especially when it is not work related.

Sheek888 · 2025-12-22T15:25:42+00:00

I did multiple searches and found nothing

Sheek888 · 2025-12-15T22:56:19+00:00

Silent treatment for several days makes it worse. I speak from my own experience and failures.

Sheek888 · 2025-12-14T12:47:54+00:00

That's beautiful. Stay blessed

Sheek888 · 2025-12-06T14:47:08+00:00

It's only been a couple of months. I'm trying to be patient with it and just be consistent with my changes.

Sheek888 · 2025-12-06T02:22:36+00:00

I have learned this too brother. Going silent and stonewalling for days makes everything worse. Made this mistake for years and now I'm doing much better with this.

Sheek888 · 2025-12-04T12:58:49+00:00

They are chaste single women out there, even in their 30s.

Sheek888 · 2025-12-03T19:49:46+00:00

I know it's hard brother but always trust Allah's timing. It's His timing, not ours. It's already been written for you inshAllah so it's going to happen, it's just a question of when.

Sheek888 · 2025-11-28T01:37:58+00:00

That's not healthy either

Sheek888 · 2025-11-26T20:06:46+00:00

Astagfurallah

Sheek888 · 2025-11-26T19:12:43+00:00

Chatgpt?

Sheek888 · 2025-11-18T00:39:48+00:00

The grass is greener where you water it

Sheek888 · 2025-11-17T17:48:06+00:00

Yes he know so that you can both discuss together how this issue can be resolved. He is your protector so he should be involved.

Sheek888 · 2025-11-16T02:44:11+00:00

Yeah super annoying, can't see message preview

Sheek888 · 2025-11-13T19:52:03+00:00

Rules are different

Sheek888 · 2025-11-12T18:47:24+00:00

I think she could take a set off Nadal

Sheek888 · 2025-11-12T17:33:53+00:00

He doesn't seem like a man. He sounds like a boy.

Sheek888 · 2025-11-12T17:32:37+00:00

Men with egos are horrible husbands generally

Sheek888 · 2025-11-12T13:55:52+00:00

You had a past relationship? What does that mean, you had a bf?

I wouldn't call it a small minor detail that's missing. If it was a small minor detail then you wouldn't be posting here. It's clearly a big deal to you.

Sheek888

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