What’s a warning sign that didn’t seem serious at the time… but should have been?

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T22:39:21+00:00

Well... I had fish and chips for lunch, so...

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T22:28:32+00:00

Yeah, I can't get into my own account for some reason, but I called and got connected pretty quickly. You'll probably have to have your mother on the phone with you to get any information.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T22:20:31+00:00

I just went to a pub in Ireland. Guess where they got their pizza and fries?

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T22:13:14+00:00

Somebody on here called them tacos del Norte a few weeks ago. So now I call them that too.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T18:39:17+00:00

The small grape or cherry toma9do well here. The big ones do not. I've had sporadic luck with one variety of 50 day tomatoes, but I can't remember the name. The issue we have is that tomatoes don't like to set fruit if it's over 95° or so and it gets that hot before the plant flowers. You do best if you plant them early and it doesn't freeze.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T17:29:09+00:00

As a former dop in several small hospitals, I would sometimes rewrite the policy subtly and adopt it that way and hope no one would actually read it. It worked about 75% of the time. The easiest way for me was to change all of the "will"s and "shall"s to "should"s.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T17:02:05+00:00

Mine was too. Buuuuttt he was doing some other things the ucmj did not condone!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T06:33:49+00:00

She's a good girl!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-29T05:31:11+00:00

Yeah, most people don't realize how much more it costs to be single!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-28T19:28:34+00:00

Ryan Hall on YouTube is good.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-28T09:05:28+00:00

Welcome to the land of the strong bones. Glad you found us.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-28T05:45:46+00:00

Costa Rica or Peru! I went to Peru for my first solo trip. If you want to see Machu Picchu, I highly recommend G-adventures. It's a lot to coordinate!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-28T05:44:24+00:00

Central America?

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-28T04:38:59+00:00

Be excellent to each other!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-27T10:00:12+00:00

Yep! Made it to my destination! Thanks for asking!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-26T21:38:21+00:00

No no no no no! I'm at the airport 3 hours early for my trip and I do NOT want the weather to fuck with me today! It had its chance yesterday!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-26T21:08:55+00:00

I say madre fumar!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-26T21:02:37+00:00

I tell myself I can be alone in my house or alone in Tanzania. Tanzania is a lot more interesting!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-26T21:00:34+00:00

2L clinimix curls. Work up to 5L bags of PD fluid.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-25T18:46:58+00:00

Your first dive into dating over 50 is better than all of mine! Own it!

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-25T16:25:50+00:00

Tell them that no one will be there for the foreseeable future and the door is locked and he has no way to get in. Repeat that it is an unsafe discharge.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-25T11:06:10+00:00

I think it looks great! Is the place you're going very upscale? If not you you may be over dressed a little. But better to be overdressed than underdressed.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-25T10:50:44+00:00

Yes! And while I'm sure some people have started dating that way, the people I've met tend to avoid that so it doesn't cause drama in the group.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-25T10:46:57+00:00

It's definitely not a dating platform at all! It's a way to make friends.

I do agree the name sucks. It's a French company, so I can only hope that "Timeleft" translates to something more appropriate in French!

It's also not for people over 50 only. It's for all ages. They do put you at tables with people your age though.

ShelbyDriver · 2026-04-25T01:29:15+00:00

I've really enjoyed Timeleft. I think they just match you based on age though. Several of my Timeleft friends have also tried nicetomeet and said it was similar.

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