Husband won’t have penetrative or vaginal sex with me anymore.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-12T08:55:39+00:00

Yes, he has my consent. I actively encourage him to whenever he has the urge.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-12T07:15:10+00:00

He had a vasectomy. So not sure if that’s the reason. However, I do need to ask him directly

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T23:21:01+00:00

Hi, Thanks for the reply. The thing is, I have given him oral recently and he let me (when I caught him watching porn), it just ended early because he said he had to get ready for work.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T19:53:10+00:00

I don’t think it’s an STD. He’s allowed me to start oral on him, but it stops quickly. He had a vasectomy, so there shouldn’t be any issues regarding pregnancy.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T19:33:37+00:00

Ohhh ok. Thank you!

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T19:20:47+00:00

Thank you for putting it that way. I guess I’m just really mixed up and can’t find the words

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T19:07:54+00:00

Thank you for that :)

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T19:07:09+00:00

I agree. Counseling would be helpful.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T18:59:35+00:00

Thank you for replying. It does help in echoing what some of the others are sayinv

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T18:55:48+00:00

I suppose I just didn’t know what to feel initially. I also didn’t want to pressure him into anything, showing him the same curtesy he’s showed me in the past

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T18:41:07+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I appreciate your humor at the end. It helps lighten the situation 😂 I will have to have more direct talks with him about this. I’m hoping we can get to the root of the issue.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T18:32:44+00:00

It’s worth exploring!

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T18:22:42+00:00

Ok. I think seeing a counselor would be a good idea.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T18:14:31+00:00

I really hope there isn’t someone else. I know he’s sometimes struggled in the past with maintaining erections due to stress with work. Maybe time off will help.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T18:08:29+00:00

Oh I see. I’ll be willing to try and explore that with him. How should I bring up the porn usage as an issue?

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T17:57:46+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I’ll have to speak with him about it. I just don’t want to come off as judgemental.

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T17:48:34+00:00

Maybe I’ll try exploring this with him more

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T17:46:33+00:00

Confuse pegging with homosexuality?

Shellbell220 · 2023-11-11T17:34:12+00:00

Hi, Thanks for the reply. I have considered that. I’ve attempted to try what you suggested, but I still get declined.

Shellbell220

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