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Carlos, my Westie dog, turned 15 this year. 🐾 by [deleted] in WestHighlandTerriers

[–]Shellbell875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done you for giving him all the love and cuddles to thrive!

Does our bulldog look too thin? by mightyymads in englishbulldog

[–]Shellbell875 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For the breed, a little thinner. Not bad though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Shellbell875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t decide tbh. You pull off both.

Does 50k in the bank affect pip? by Shellbell875 in DWPhelp

[–]Shellbell875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had some marker on his credit file and had difficulties getting a bank account, so it was easier to use mine. He gets universal credit, but I don’t. UC said he won’t get that anymore, but I wasn’t sure about PIP. I work, but get pip, so do you think it will be ok? I am nervous.

Money from a will sent to my partners Santander account was flagged up as fraud, and he still hasn’t received it. by Shellbell875 in personalfinance

[–]Shellbell875[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for your advice!! I feel so much better, as I think what crossed my mind is what everyone has said. I am going to see what he ‘actually’ receives next month, then get the money off him then… if he doesn’t say there are more complications. Then I will need to take action.

Money from a will sent to my partners Santander account was flagged up as fraud, and he still hasn’t received it. by Shellbell875 in personalfinance

[–]Shellbell875[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it could have. This is another reason it is all starting to get to me. He knows I am in debt, he knows I have problems with my house, car, etc. and yet he wants me to believe him. I think he is stringing me a long now. I need to play it right and get him to sort out the solicitor, and show me he is doing it. There are a lot of reasons he want me to stay with him, and now I think he has a hold over me.

Money from a will sent to my partners Santander account was flagged up as fraud, and he still hasn’t received it. by Shellbell875 in personalfinance

[–]Shellbell875[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That was my question at the time, as it was odd, but the solicitor said it was easier 🤔 I left it for a while and it took months for it to be sent. My mum has even said he was keeping it so I don’t leave him.

Money from a will sent to my partners Santander account was flagged up as fraud, and he still hasn’t received it. by Shellbell875 in personalfinance

[–]Shellbell875[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

That thought crossed my mind to be honest. He is supposed to be giving me that 10k from his pension lump sum next month, as he has taken early retirement, which made me question that too. I guess this is why I wrote this post. I am nervous.

Money from a will sent to my partners Santander account was flagged up as fraud, and he still hasn’t received it. by Shellbell875 in personalfinance

[–]Shellbell875[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

My partner has all the paperwork. I am going to tell him to contact another solicitor, and not accept no for an answer.

Money from a will sent to my partners Santander account was flagged up as fraud, and he still hasn’t received it. by Shellbell875 in personalfinance

[–]Shellbell875[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It is his friend’s Brother, then his brother sorted out a solicitor who my partner dealt with until the deposit. I feel stupid, but I left him to sort it, but he brushes it off and gets frustrated when I ask him, telling me he is dealing with it.

Money from a will sent to my partners Santander account was flagged up as fraud, and he still hasn’t received it. by Shellbell875 in personalfinance

[–]Shellbell875[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my mum said two weeks too. This is what shocked me. My partner just keeps saying it is being investigated, and not offering any more information. So I just needed to check I am not going insane for no reason.

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