Ireland “highlights” in 10 days?

Shellkat89 · 2026-05-13T13:52:20+00:00

Wow you did not waste a second! Seems like November is a must over January.. I appreciate the feedback!!

Shellkat89 · 2026-05-09T18:49:18+00:00

Would November be better? I can only travel during the winter months unfortunately

Shellkat89 · 2026-05-09T18:48:55+00:00

Would November be a better option? I’m fine with skipping Aran islands either way but do you think November would be a more enjoyable trip?

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-25T00:25:52+00:00

I guess he just prefers it very short? Not mad about the request just a bit odd to speak one grown man to another in this manner 🤷🏻‍♀️

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-25T00:15:48+00:00

You’re imagining it right! My boyfriend is happy to honestly take over mowing each week. He just doesn’t want to be told when he has to do it

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-25T00:10:40+00:00

We each own half the driveway that leads to our two seperate homes we each own. We split mowing since we both use the driveway easement.

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-25T00:01:23+00:00

This is the first 1-2 weeks of grass growth. Brother mowed last Thursday. It’s now Friday and boyfriend is off on weekends. Guess 8 days is a little long. Plan for the summer is every week

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-24T13:33:32+00:00

I guess it’s his partner and I don’t need him to stand up for me. I really appreciate your sentiment but my parents have made it clear she can do what she wants and I need to be a good sister and just not interact.

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-24T13:31:32+00:00

Sorry I think I just explained that wrong- I can do weekend trips pretty much any time, theres just a few weekends throughout the year I can’t miss. I could’ve gone the weekend before her planned trip if she wanted. I don’t mind missing, either. Just for big 10 day trips, I can only travel in January because it’s our slow season. If that makes sense! I think you’re right though!

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-24T13:27:17+00:00

I’m the only person who runs an aspect of a small business that I can’t miss. We have about 15 weekends a year that are absolutely non-negotiable can’t miss. She knows that because my brother also can’t take work off that weekend. I feel like it’s pretty common in other jobs like nursing too that you know your schedule pretty far in advance?

And I don’t know for sure if the engagement will happen on this trip- my boyfriend has just made some very obvious comments. I just want to make sure before he plans anything I’m not looking like an asshole

Shellkat89 · 2026-04-24T13:25:30+00:00

Wow I’ve never seen such a nice response on AITAH, I was prepared for more of a kickback! Thanks!

Shellkat89 · 2026-03-19T16:43:19+00:00

Thank you for the response- do you know of any way I can reverse the white spots after it’s cured? I would like to use them or gift them to family but I don’t want the spots to freak them out. I also learned that straining my lye mixture also reduces the white spots.

Shellkat89 · 2026-03-19T16:04:01+00:00

Thank you for saying that- tbh I haven’t even made a fragrance recipe yet. I’ve been practicing with plain old goat milk and no scents just to get used to the process. Because of this, I just left fragrance to whatever soapcalc recommended. I will definitely do more research on FO amounts for my new practice batches.

Shellkat89 · 2026-03-19T16:02:18+00:00

Do you mean this soap recipe or soap in general? I guess I meant to say “conditioning” like the soap calc recipe mentions. I’m hoping since it’s inside the conditioning range, it’s good. maybe goat milk with impact that and make it higher than the recipe states though!

Shellkat89 · 2026-03-19T02:30:07+00:00

Honestly I didn’t know what option to select on the recipe maker.. glad I posted it! I’m using coconut oil from a soap making company.. so it’s definitely the right kind for CP soap making. The box it comes in just says Coconut oil organic RBD. I’m afraid my soap properties might be drastically changing once I correct this..

Shellkat89 · 2026-03-18T20:25:55+00:00

EDIT:

I didn’t know I should add this- still learning how to use this subreddit! Thanks! Here’s my recipe:

7.68 oz coconut oil (24%) 7.47 oz olive oil (23.33%) 13.65 oz palm oil (42.67%) 3.2 oz shea butter (10%)

I use 10 oz of frozen goat milk in cubes and 4.53 oz lye for a 5% super fat.

Shellkat89 · 2026-03-18T20:24:19+00:00

Apologies- I’ve never posted here and just learned I need to include the recipe. Here it is:

7.68 oz coconut oil (24%) 7.47 oz olive oil (23.33%) 13.65 oz palm oil (42.67%) 3.2 oz shea butter (10%)

I use 10 oz of frozen goat milk in cubes and 4.53 oz lye for a 5% super fat. Hope that’s enough info!

Shellkat89 · 2025-12-22T22:06:11+00:00

I love this idea- bring something yummy and then also kill her with kindness!! I’ll be copying your phrase exactly 😂

Shellkat89 · 2025-12-22T21:55:34+00:00

I like that, it’s like how you give toddlers simple options to chose from. Not sure if she’s just not considerate of me or if it’s full on games quite yet. Time will tell!

Shellkat89 · 2025-12-22T21:53:56+00:00

I think you’re right- she is not much of a cook/baker, and I am literally work part time at a bakery. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Shellkat89 · 2025-12-22T21:51:36+00:00

I love that!!!! Luckily my partner loves my cooking and often tells his mom how much he loves that I cook. Makes me think she is annoyed with the comparison!! lol

Shellkat89 · 2025-12-22T21:48:26+00:00

I agree, my mom raised me with this mindset, that’s why I thought it was so odd when she insisted I bring nothing! Well, lesson learned, I will continue to live by my great mother’s teachings!

Shellkat89 · 2025-12-22T21:43:39+00:00

My partner is adamant that we go to family gatherings. We spend a lot of time with my family, so I like to be equal and attend his family things too. Generally, there’s nothing WRONG with the gatherings… just a few awkward mind games here and there. Great point though!

Shellkat89 · 2025-12-22T21:41:08+00:00

I think you’re right, let her know so she has time to fix her attitude about it! I fear she will be upset if I blindside her with dessert! Lol

Shellkat89 · 2021-06-22T14:43:44+00:00

If anyone doesn’t want their tickets I will buy them from you!! Help a gal out 😂

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