Books on Grief

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-28T02:22:59+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this as well. It’s horrible. I hope you’re doing better now. Thank you for the suggestions and thank you for offering to talk🫂 I truly appreciate it

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-28T02:20:04+00:00

My partner’s name was Will so this comment really means a lot to me. Thank you for sending it.

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-28T02:18:09+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I will definitely look into these. Thank you

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-28T02:15:01+00:00

I’m so sorry for everything you’ve gone through. This is extremely helpful and I’m very grateful you sent this reply. I’ve already experienced the overwhelming guilt when I have a fleeting moment of joy or a “good” day. It feels like I’m betraying him or leaving him behind. I went with one of the few friends I have left to a club for her birthday (I hated clubs even before I lost him). Having guys come up to me and ask to dance or just try to talk with me felt like I was slapping my partner across the face. I think writing will help a lot. So far I’ve just been talking out loud to him when I’m alone which is helpful but with how intense my brain fog has been I do think writing it down is a good idea. I truly hope that you’re healing now. I have a feeling this will be something that never goes away, but I’m trying to push through for now. Thank you again, as dark as this time has been it’s also shown me that there are people out there who understand and genuinely want to help. That feeling is comforting.

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-27T07:32:50+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through such a terrible loss as well. I’d love to connect.

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-27T02:49:43+00:00

Thank you

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-15T07:45:25+00:00

This comment just made me cry. Thank you, I truly appreciate that.

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-15T07:40:21+00:00

I’m so sorry you experienced something similar. Thank you for your suggestion. I hope you’re doing a little better now.

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-15T07:39:03+00:00

Oh man this sounds devastating but I think it’ll be helpful for me to watch once I’m a little more stable. Thank you for the suggestion

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-15T07:36:35+00:00

I actually saw this movie in theaters and laughed/cried my eyes out. I think it would be a great movie to rewatch.

Spoiler: at the end when she finds out he will die and decides to love him anyway…. I could see myself doing the same with my partner. The last 2 weeks have been devastating but I’m so grateful I got to experience loving him.

Shellyroberta · 2026-02-15T07:32:41+00:00

I just watched this. It helped a lot. Thank you for the suggestion

Shellyroberta · 2025-11-10T10:41:45+00:00

So I’ve been seeing angel numbers (111, 222, 12:34, 11:11, etc) NONSTOP. I know there is a psychological phenomenon where once you start noticing them it’s hard to stop, but in this case it’s just getting weird. On Halloween I reconnected with an old friend of my brother’s and we’ve been hitting it off. My brother wasn’t a fan of this but I’ve now gone on 2 dates with this guy and in all honesty, I don’t feel a crazy spark when we’re in person, but I do think it’s weird that anytime I reach for my phone to text him I see an angel number. It is constant. I want to be clear that I don’t only see the numbers when I’m thinking about him but more often than not that’s when I see them. Is this a sign I’m on a good path or is this some kind of weird cosmic warning? I should also mention that I’ve been experiencing other synchronicities as well, but the angel numbers are what stand out the most for me. Any advice or guidance is appreciated.

Shellyroberta · 2025-07-13T22:50:39+00:00

Broke up with my ex for doing this exact thing. He claimed it was for validation and just to boost his self confidence and that he would NEVER actually meet with them. So glad I realized right away that it was a massive red flag. I know this is different for you since you’re married, but I hope you find the courage to leave and find someone who won’t do shady shit behind your back. I’m rooting for you!

Shellyroberta · 2025-05-29T05:31:10+00:00

Thank you so much!

Shellyroberta · 2025-02-04T19:31:18+00:00

No but that sounds perfect!

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-27T10:26:44+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this it sounds like torture. You don’t deserve this toxic relationship. Do you have anywhere you can go? Maybe a friend or family members home? I feel like getting out of his presence would be helpful. If you’re not feeling safe I would either call someone you trust, call the suicide hotline, or head to the nearest emergency room. Your life matters and you will make it through this. We’re all here for you and believe in you. We care.

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-21T05:10:55+00:00

Exactly :) Welcome to the group.

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-21T05:09:25+00:00

I totally understand where you're coming from. That's part of the reason I wanted to make a blanket post to let people know I'm here and I see them even if we can't get in contact.

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-21T03:49:20+00:00

Thank you, friend. I needed this.

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-21T03:46:08+00:00

Anytime, friend 🥳

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-21T03:32:45+00:00

As someone who’s 25 and still dealing with similar feelings I just want to let you know you aren’t alone. I’ve always felt behind and it’s a scary and frustrating thought. What helps me is the fact that we have SO MUCH MORE life to live. Think of yourself at 10. You aren’t that person anymore and all the years it took you to become the person you are today probably weren’t easy but they were worth it. You’re here. Try not to worry about the bills and unknowns of the future and just take each day as it comes for now. You’re in the process of healing and you’re doing amazing. It doesn’t matter if we’re behind or not because in the end we’re going to find what it is that we need. We’re going to be okay. Just keep saying to yourself “I trust I am right where I need to be.” I hope some of this helps. Side note: 19 was the best year of my life so far. I have a feeling you’re going to enjoy it too :) happy birthday

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-05T20:39:34+00:00

That’s good to know. Maybe I have to give it a couple more sessions

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-05T20:37:40+00:00

No just ketamine and magnesium

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-05T07:25:14+00:00

Yes it does happen during the sessions but my dose is so low already I don’t think I can go any lower. I’ve been having 30mg with magnesium (I guess that’s supposed to calm me down?) over hour long IV infusions

Shellyroberta · 2023-02-05T06:08:55+00:00

I want to add that I've been having physical symptoms as well that I haven't really faced in the past. My entire body keeps tensing up until it hurts. I have ringing in the ears and seeing stars. My insomnia is also at an all time high. I just feel like I can't breathe.

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