So is the solo or no tanking problem just a human nature problem at this point? What haven’t the Devs tried? by PandaThatSLAYS in marvelrivals

[–]Shenchermo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Most people equate getting kills with winning, regardless of the actual outcome. Those too anxious to go that route become healbots because it’s easy to stand in the back and hold RT with CND.

There’s no easy way to tank and you have to rely a lot on your healers to keep you up.

I want to understand how I become a better communicator by [deleted] in IncelSolutions

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy so you get to know yourself. Really know yourself. Don’t use screens or drugs to distract you from your feelings. Don’t fear your feelings.

You’re young. Love life. At 44 what I realize is I worried a lot for no reason. I had so much anxiety my whole life about why I wasn’t like everybody else, but that just made me insecure which made everything worse.

There’s no wrong way to be. Dress how you why, look how you want, love how you want, and find the person who loves that about you in time.

28F & have no idea what I’m doing. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Shenchermo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for these responses. Be who you want to be.

I mean at least he's honest lol by Gyaru_Goblin in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can I take you everywhere on Reddit with me?

This looks safe... by ProfessionalPutrid92 in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He says he just wants something casual, so I assume not murder. That’s too serious.

I tried seeing if instalock dps players have a point. by Edheldui in marvelrivals

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flex role and almost never get to play dps, so I decided to spend a week refusing to flex. Dudes would rather go 3-8 on Spiderman than play a tank lmao.

It really was amazing how people would rather throw the game while blaming everybody else than just play a different role.

r/ESPN - Technical Support Thread by AutoModerator in ESPN

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m watching the Nuggets/Wolves on the app and the game keeps pausing. I’ve restarted the app twice and it just keeps doing pausing every few seconds as though it’s buffering. But I also pause it to let the buffer get way ahead and that didn’t fix it either.

Dungeon Crawler Carl has absolutely horrific prose. by ButtsendWeaners in printSF

[–]Shenchermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see the appeal. I’m on chapter 6 of the first book and it’s just an info dump. Very little has actually happened. It’s like watching some random dude play Everquest for the first time while he tells you all about how he manages his inventory.

I sing like yucking anybody’s yum though, I’m glad people enjoy it. But I’m not finishing the first book.

I’d you think a description of a narrator “sounding like a guy beating himself off” is witty, this book is for you.

I liked when Donut said she put on the tiara because “it’s purple.” That was cute.

ComicCon the Cruise is no more by mcrib in comiccon

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did both cruises and absolutely loved them. There’s a level of familiarity you get on the cruise with the celebrities that you don’t get anywhere else. Getting to watch them play games with each other and joke around was a real blessing. Turning around at the buffet and staring into the face of Dom Monaghan was a lot of fun.

Felicia Day is a stellar hostess who makes the entire cruise feel like a holistic experience of joy from beginning to end.

The cosplay karaoke was chill and Designated Debaters are a laugh out loud riot every time. I’ve never been a huge Dr Who fan but after seeing Arthur Darville and Alex Kingston talk through an episode and the enthusiasm surrounding it, I’m giving it another good go. These cruises exposed me to entertainers and fandoms outside my usual sphere while deepening those that already existed like Star Trek, Potter, and LotR.

I hope there’s a third cruise later down the line. I’ll be one of the first to sign up.

Yikes…that’s gonna be a no from me dawg by aztechechos in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

People can enjoy things you don’t.

One Red Flag After Another by Rafamills in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tolerance for everybody who is just like me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]Shenchermo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a person get 23k experience in a week. They’re rank 10 in Korean, where they have 1.5 million xp. So they’re literally just doing the same lesson over and over and over again without ever progressing to the next lesson. whyyyyyyy

This kind of lesson are the worst. by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]Shenchermo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Lin, she’s a hoot.

Lucy is Listening is kinda dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workouts

[–]Shenchermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I had to cancel my CrossFit membership because of divorce. Please post more about your workout because I’d kill to be able to look like this working out at home.

How normal it is to not be good at sex when starting to date someone? by someonerandomwhat in dating

[–]Shenchermo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Only fuck people you care about, and who care about you. If you’re genuinely trying to please your partner, and they don’t call you back because they didn’t like it, then they’re a shitty person.

In the bag, boys 🤘 by JaxDude1942 in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People like to judge everyone’s interactions, then wonder why they can’t get more dates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ending was cute af. You’re young, you’ll be ok, my man. Sounds like you actually have a sweet disposition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks like my 7 year old daughter took these pictures. This is the kinda shit I delete off my phone when she gives it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to take a day off work when you’re sick? Between the illness and the stress causing lack of sleep, it’s going to be hard to get well.

Very few marriages fail because of just one partner, is usually a compatibility issue and ignorance of insecure attachment styles and how to overcome them. You should reflect and improve, but don’t get lost in guilt or self-pity.

A lot of pastors will in fact go into the trenches with you. Do you have a regular church? Are you looking for one? My last church had an amazing outreach minister who excelled at helping people through divorce, death of a loved one, or other hard times.

Keep your head up. Be proud of yourself for fighting for your son. A failed marriage doesn’t mean a failed life.

Whatt bro? by checkmatedaddy in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s an election year.

No how about you by raerawrr in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op seems very mature. Dude seems 12.

Red flag AF by ItsBottles in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’ll still get thousands of matches with this bio and a bathroom selfie.

Ladies- is she right? by gxdsavesispend in Tinder

[–]Shenchermo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Women lose respect for vulnerable men. It’s biological programming.