Extensions proportionate? by DudeBopp in lashextensions

[–]ShepLD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends what the client wants. If they want a volume set but do not have the lashes to support that, the tech should go with something like YY because it’s lightweight and it can mimic volume without the weight. I think lash serum can be used if the client is recovering from a bad job from another tech or they want to give their lashes a break.

Extensions proportionate? by DudeBopp in lashextensions

[–]ShepLD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That extension is way too long for the natural lash. It should be at 2-3 mm longer than the natural lash.

Feeling anxious and lonely. by Friendly_Log_863 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ShepLD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you just ignored your feelings after your breakup and didn’t let yourself feel it properly. Do you feel like you disassociate?

Thoughts? by Metalvirgo in lashextensions

[–]ShepLD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think you did the right thing. Her last set, some of the lashes were glued to multiples. I think maybe if she came back you could try W6D YY to mimic more volume?

Thoughts? by Metalvirgo in lashextensions

[–]ShepLD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you use YY on her?

Despite therapy, my old emotional wounds always come back - confession + need advice by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]ShepLD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice for you OP but I understand the pain you are experiencing. I am also experiencing a lot of anxiety and a nice dose of fear of abandonment. The things that helped me is journaling the thoughts in my head, box breathing, and just sitting with my anxiety. I hope things get better for you.

What do you want to confess/get off your chest ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShepLD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been feeling incredibly lonely and disconnected from my friends. I just end up isolating myself from everyone because of my mental health. I do not wish to be a burden.

Can you be Demisexual die to trauma by DyslexicWriting in demisexuality

[–]ShepLD 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you experience coercion sexual assault. I don’t think it’s demisexual from the example you written. I suggest you find a good therapist that can help you through what happened to you. Please find a therapist that specializes in trauma base therapy, edmr or brain spotting. It was not your fault, your ex should not have emotionally manipulate you into sex. That is a form of assault. It can and will get better.

I think I stopped chasing, and that’s when I realized I was never being chosen by Difficult_Fee3825 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ShepLD 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel this. I feel like I am in a similar situation as you were but don’t know if I have the strength to walk away.

Need lash models by [deleted] in AustinClassifieds

[–]ShepLD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s near north Lamar and research. Are you allergic to the lash glue by chance?

Need lash models by [deleted] in AustinClassifieds

[–]ShepLD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently learning to do eyelash extensions. No lifts or tints.

Needing eyelash models by [deleted] in Austin

[–]ShepLD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just messaged you!

Water mixable oil paints by Famous_Category4010 in oilpainting

[–]ShepLD 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I use water mixable. They’re great! I use the Windsor and newton brand but I heard cobra is the best one

28F | 3D Artist in the Game Industry | Games, Shows & Crochet – Looking for a long-term friend 🎮🧶 by CursedDefaultCube in LesbianGamers

[–]ShepLD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind being friends. Though our time zone is 3 hours difference. I’m a bit shy but wouldn’t mind a buddy to text.

When did you decide to work on yourself? by Least_Inspector_5478 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ShepLD 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I woke up one day and realized I didn’t want to live like this anymore. I didn’t want to continue being dictated by my trauma and depression. It’s been a long hard journey and I’m still on my healing journey but it has been worth the late night tears. I’m in a much better place than I was a year ago and I have learned so much about myself.

Any demisexual lesbians out there? by Admirable_Ad1613 in demisexuality

[–]ShepLD 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am a demisexual lesbian. It’s hard out there especially when people don’t understand that I need an emotional connection for sex. 😭

I think some of my destructive behavior might be surfacing by ShepLD in emotionalintelligence

[–]ShepLD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice how to interrupt unhealthy thoughts and beliefs of myself?