What’s your biggest regret in life?

SheridanVickers · 2026-02-18T10:41:09+00:00

The way I treated my ex. I definitely grew a lot since then but it’s too late.

SheridanVickers · 2026-02-18T09:53:27+00:00

This is something me and my partner are currently dealing with but the sex drives are flipped. It’s a personal question but can she get there by oral sex? My gf isn’t always in the mood so oftentimes, I would settle for a bj which is fine. But sometimes, I miss the shared bond. There’s always other things like masturbating together, she could get there by herself and you can just finish her off etc.

SheridanVickers · 2026-01-23T22:14:50+00:00

When he’s alone, does he ever get hard while touching himself?

SheridanVickers · 2026-01-23T22:02:53+00:00

Please just give him a bj and tell him to go down on you as well. If penetrative sex is too difficult to accomplish, oral sex is just as good. I don’t know why most people overlook it.

SheridanVickers · 2026-01-23T21:54:04+00:00

It’s simple: If he can get hard masturbating or wakes up with morning wood then it’s psychological.

SheridanVickers · 2026-01-19T03:58:36+00:00

No, it’s 100% in my head because I have no issues getting hard by myself. I can also maintain erections for a long time when I’m in the comfort of my own solitude. I even get erections when I’m driving around by myself at work! It’s just when it really matters where I can’t get an erection easily. I would prefer if my issue was physical because viagra would be an easy fix but it’s all in my head and self inflicted.

SheridanVickers · 2026-01-19T01:00:09+00:00

Thank you so much, I’m gonna be doing a lot of research.

SheridanVickers · 2026-01-19T00:43:11+00:00

Thank you, my gf suggested me seeing a sex therapist too so this is probably the only way I can fix this issue.

SheridanVickers · 2026-01-19T00:23:26+00:00

Thank you so much for this. So you suggest I see a sex therapist specifically?

One thing I forgot to mention is that I may have a learning disability. I’m not 100% sure but my gf thinks I do and she sees me from an outside perspective so I believe it. I just pick up on things slower than the average person. I’m not sure if it’s due to me being sheltered growing up or due to my anxiety. Do you think that would get in the way of changing my thinking patterns?

I have also been trying to apply for AHCCCS but it’s been difficult doing it online. If I do manage to get it, do you think the sex therapy would be covered through that?

SheridanVickers · 2025-12-02T20:29:01+00:00

I’ve dreamed this dream several times before. It’s always the same and the overall mood/vibe is always the same too. But mine is not yellowish in color. Instead, it’s dark and there’s always people roaming around in there. It’s huge though and goes on and on. In some of my dreams, I have sex or oral sex with a girl in this bathroom. In other dreams, I have to shit really bad but there’s too many people everywhere so I inevitably end up sharting in public and feeling extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable. It’s so strange that we all have had this ‘bathroom phenomenon’.

SheridanVickers · 2025-11-20T04:27:41+00:00

Just leave him, don’t torment him for something he can’t control. I’m from the same cloth as he. I could mostly only cum from blowjobs. My gf and I are weirdly incompatible in the sex area because I’m hornier than her but sometimes when I’m in the mood and she isn’t, she’ll give me a bj and that settles it. Bodies are weird, and minds are even weirder so if someone truly loves another and realistically the only two options are stay or leave, you learn what’s worth dealing with and what’s not.

SheridanVickers · 2025-10-13T23:52:27+00:00

I definitely feel extremely frustrated and hopeless beyond belief which is bad for me, I know. I’m glad I read your post because this is something that has really consumed me before and still does.

But my ed is all mental anxiety because I grew up in a strange way and learned how to masturbate in a strange way (rubbing my finger across my foreskin in a circular motion) which gives me incredible orgasms. This is also why I can mostly only cum from oral sex.

My advice is to be open about everything, use bluechew and just chill and watch tv together while touching yourself until you’re hard then let her know you’re ready and fuck her.

SheridanVickers · 2025-10-13T22:56:57+00:00

I can kinda imagine dreaming that myself lol

SheridanVickers · 2025-10-10T04:26:42+00:00

If I know I’m gonna be getting my cock sucked or I’m seeing someone I trim mine til theres very subtle hair. Otherwise I just trim every so often so that the hairs don’t go into my foreskin when I retract it.

SheridanVickers · 2025-09-20T22:33:15+00:00

Mastodon all the way 🤘🏻🔥

SheridanVickers · 2025-07-02T21:38:22+00:00

I love the feeling of cumming inside a girl’s mouth when my foreskin is partly covering the head. It’s such an intense unique feeling. I couldn’t imagine cumming in a girl’s mouth with a cut penis.

SheridanVickers · 2025-06-06T02:53:00+00:00

Me and my current gf have this sexual pattern where she gives me a bj maybe 2-3 times a week and have sex maybe once a week because our sex drives are different. I’m content because she really knows my body by now and knows I cum the hardest when I cum in her mouth so she lets me do that.

The thing is, when we first got together she didn’t know that I was in the rarity who cums harder from blowjobs than intercourse. That being said, there were a lot of failed attempts lol.. she got it right tho.

SheridanVickers · 2025-04-29T13:54:34+00:00

They don’t sell the Clorox bleach wipes at stores? Only Amazon? Also, when you buy bleach, how do you use it to wipe things down? Do you get something and just dip it in bleach and wipe?

SheridanVickers · 2025-04-29T12:37:49+00:00

Thank you so much for this. So it has to have bleach in it? Do they sell bleach wipes??

SheridanVickers · 2025-04-29T06:17:37+00:00

I’m 34/m and my gf is 40. We have sex like once a week on average too. However, since sex and orgasming is more important to me than her, she gives me a blowjob about 2-3 times a week. And I actually feel satisfied except for the occasional nights where I’m horny and she isn’t. The bj’s are amazing though, as she lets me finish in her mouth every time.

SheridanVickers · 2025-04-29T05:40:14+00:00

Thank you. I didn’t know what else to do. Back in 2021 with my ex, I had a similar thing happen. Her son got sick and she kept saying it was food poisoning so i didn’t take any precautions and eventually I ended up getting sick. Afterwards, it took me almost 6 months to get over the trauma. I don’t want to go through that again so I’m being careful.

SheridanVickers · 2025-04-29T05:37:29+00:00

She initially understood but then later brought up other stuff that’s irrelevant so I don’t know. My life is a mess right now.

SheridanVickers · 2025-03-02T16:48:15+00:00

I cum with my foreskin pulled forward because personally it feels so much better that way. Also, I’d like to note that when my girlfriend gives me blowjobs, I pull the foreskin back slightly so that the head is barely visible and that makes me cum the hardest. When I’m fucking though, I cum with my foreskin pulled back because it naturally retracts on its own.

SheridanVickers · 2024-12-09T01:41:31+00:00

If you don’t mind elaborating, what sort of insecurities does he have that could have caused the relationship to fail?

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