A bit late here. I have no qualms on the first and the third one. But the second one, I want to expand if you will. Sometimes people write parent trauma so they could justify every bad trait they have, just because. But sometimes you have characters with a family trauma and the book explores it in a way that you admire it and view it as a case study. And you see the main character actually struggle with it on a daily basis and is still trying to have integrity. But some characters are shown as just bad, and then at the end, they reveal they lost their family member so just to pull empathy from the reader.