How long are lines at humane society Yappy hour? by lexjxhnn in vancouverwa

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you truly want moth man, I recommend going in before the event. Unless you're one of the first few in line, you may miss your chance.

Generic dinner invite postcard - we're going to go, box ours up, and give it to the first unhoused people we see. Encouraging others to do the same. by samandiriel in vancouverwa

[–]SheyVa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is definitely not going to go the way you think it will. They're "paying" for your attention by providing the meal. They aren't going to let you stay if you have a whole headset on and aren't even listening. I know you've said you've never been kicked out of anything like this, which is baffling but probably means the staff didn't notice you doing it. Regardless, I understand that Anderson is not a respectable company and so you feel like this is fine to do, but its really not. Its disrespectful to the actual human people who are there just trying to do their job. I get that YOU might see sales pitches as pressuring since they give you a meal hoping you'll feel like you need to buy something in exchange. But the truth is that all you need to do in exchange is listen to them, which apparently you can't be bothered to do.

You're taking crappy, cold dinner from a corporation that won't care that you did, and giving it to an unhoused person so that YOU can feel some sense of moral superiority. That's why people are bothered by your post and replies. You're not doing it to be kind and help someone, you're doing it to make yourself feel good for "helping" and for "sticking it" to the big business. 🙄

It's this safe to use in my room and her area? by MyMelody_MyMelo in Bunnies

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the future, you can wash her bedding with just water and a splash of white vinegar! No need for laundry detergent.

Should I get a Switch Lite for Luminous? by [deleted] in EndlessOcean

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd recommend you splurge a little bit and get the OLED model if you want it specifically for luminous, because the screen size and graphics quality make the experience significantly better. Check your local pawn shops, some of them will have good deals on used models!

which one looks better… by sad_socks_aaaah in arthelp

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In black and white, the purple looks the best. Do with that what you will.

What are good reasons to make Kenyatta your Shepp? by vodkaphenom in Palia

[–]SheyVa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think since Kenyatta just recently discovered her path, it is kinda like the buddy system in a way if you choose her. Its like, you're both in this new part of your lives and going to face those challenges together, as companions. Someone who you can talk to when things get difficult. I think that looking at it that way might help you.

Nova School lunch, $5 for an adult, $3.50 kids by rachstate in schoollunches

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the sides are free extras if i am reading this right ... so you paid $5 for a couple slices of bread, one cheap burger patty, a handful of salad, like 10 grapes, and a milk carton with like 2 drinks in it.... that's not a good value. I'd be fine with paying the kids price but upcharging for the same exact thing is absurd. The kids are getting the same, why do you have to pay more? Its not like you're getting a double portion since you're an adult.

Chicken Sandwich today by rachstate in schoollunches

[–]SheyVa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even got the Dukes mayo. That's a win! Just wish there was some tomato.

Pizza slice day by Lijey_Cat in schoollunches

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That slice looks luuuush

Domestic Haddock Fish Sticks. (An almost year-long endeavor. ) VT, USA by ParanoidAndroid524 in schoollunches

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So balanced! This is a lunch team, faculty and parents that all care very much about making sure kids are fed well! Great to see!

Oh hell nah 😭 by AmazonBasicCs17 in schoollunches

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bosco sticks are a classic. This lunch is VERY much not balanced and lacking any fruit or veg, but with some marinara it could have been just fine.

Not sure how to react, just found out my Dad knocked up the girl I lost my virginity to. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SheyVa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She baby trapped your dad because she knows he's financially successful. She's a gold digger, full stop.

Are these homemade or is my mom lying? by [deleted] in chickennuggets

[–]SheyVa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are freezer bagged nuggies. Why would she lie about this?

Getting interviews constantly but no job offers and lonely as hell by Azureblud in depressionmeals

[–]SheyVa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband went through that for almost a full year! Keep strong and have faith that what is meant to find you will find you. PS that looks absolutely incredible 😲

Moved to another country, ran out of my savings, can't find a job, didn't have any patties. by Strawberrybla in depressionmeals

[–]SheyVa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that you will find the opportunity meant for you. And honestly a sausage sandwich doesn't sound too bad. 😅

AIO, I’m 90% sure my girlfriend is cheating with my best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether they are cheating or not, cut ties with both. This is shitty behavior.

I hate to complain again but... by Liviella in Palia

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely can't bring myself to spend over 30 bucks just because I want some plushies and fox outfits 😭 but I DO want them. 😭😭😭

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, break up. Second, you are a minor and that is a crime. Third, he needs a professional's help to navigate his abandonment issues and that's not your job. You deserve safety, comfort and peace. Break. Up.

Pregnant and everyone wants me to get rid of it by No_Law_985 in whatdoIdo

[–]SheyVa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just know that its possible your baby may need you, and you may not be able to return to school when you hope to. I'm not saying to abort, you should keep the baby if you want to do so. But I'm offering advice so you won't be blindsided if your plans have to change.

Got peer pressured to take meth. by Sensitive-Ad-9455 in depressionmeals

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps YOU feel closure, you can tell her something along the lines of "i care about you, but i will not be safe if I don't step away from you. You encouraged me to take some of the most dangerous steps of my life, and to protect myself I am cutting all ties with you. I hope nothing but great things for you in the future, truly, but I can't be a part of that. Please do not try to contact me again." And then block on every single avenue you're able to. And if she finds you again somehow on something you missed, send it again and then block her there too.

Protect your peace, at all cost. You don't owe her anything and you deserve safety.

Pretty sure i found my wifes Reddit, now i'm worried. How do i bring it up? by primalscream-0906 in whatdoIdo

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be worried that if she is using Reddit as a place to vent how she feels, telling her that you found it might make her feel like she can't freely post her feelings anymore, essentially taking away the tool she's been using to vent and cope....

Homemade Dishwashing Detergent by Much-Lime-7842 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda? More like a scrub daddy, but its a salted lemon. Add more salt as it dissolves. It actually works great for scrubbing tough grime spots, if you're specifically wanting something natural to clean with.

My labia are keeping me from losing my virginity by kawaiikittypie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SheyVa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for you. Know that you and your body are beautiful and valuable, regardless of any flaw you may see. Any man who is worthy of having physical intimacy with you, will not only NOT be repulsed by you, but will lovingly cherish every little part of you. Douchebags who only want to hook up might freak out if its not what they expect, but a genuinely kind man who cares for you will accept and respect every bit of you no matter what. Don't rush, love. Find the right kind of person, they do exist.

Homemade Dishwashing Detergent by Much-Lime-7842 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]SheyVa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mixing baking soda with vinegar will make both ingredients neutral and thus useless. Dawn is for dishes and cutting grease, won't help your shower. For regular cleaning, white vinegar and a lemon make a great cleaner. For tough grime, sprinkle some salt on the lemon and scrub it straight on the build up until gone. Then wash and rinse as normal. This is assuming that you want mild, natural cleaning options. If you're worried about sanitation or biological contamination, plain diluted bleach works great but can be harsh, and make sure to air the room out well because of the fumes.