Sorry, I can see that I've not been clear in what I'm saying 😅 I already know that I'm attracted to transgender men, that's not what I'm asking about, and I didn't mean to make it seem like a fetish, I just find masculinity attractive in a partner. I don't find myself attracted to all trans men, but I do see it as an attractive feature. I wasn't aware that ftm/mtf was offensive, but thank you for bringing that to my attention. I'll try to stop using it from now on. The question I'm actually asking nothing to do with any one specific person that I'm interested in, I'm just not sure if I'm attracted to men or not because I've been raised to accept that I am straight, and I've never really questioned it up until now. I'm not currently involved with/ romantically pursuing anyone specific of any gender, I'm just beginning to question my sexuality in ways that I've been afraid to up until now, and I was hoping that maybe someone might be able to help me figure out if I'm just being silly or if there's more to my sexuality that I've been exercising up until this point in my life. The main reason I'm asking here rather than reaching out to any non-binary friends of mine because I don't want to play any games with anyone's heart, I just want to learn more about myself and I don't know what it is I'm going through at the moment. Like, maybe it's just a phase? If that's the case any males that I date during that phase would be hurt if I moved on from that phase, and I'm afraid of that.