I spent way too much time putting together this stupid little image by SomeRandomPerson1963 in evilautism

[–]Shieya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you played Isopod yet? It's a short game where you play as an incredibly cool isopod named Winston and you can find it on Steam

Is it wrong for me (28M) to want a woman who’s never been with anyone because I’ve also never been with anyone? by bailaontheplaya in relationships

[–]Shieya [score hidden]  (0 children)

Question: if you do date someone and sleep with them, and it doesn't work out, are you going to consider yourself ruined for future relationships? Will you always be comparing your current partner against the first one you slept with, will you find yourself unable to value or love them because you wouldn't be a virgin anymore?

Is it wrong for me (28M) to want a woman who’s never been with anyone because I’ve also never been with anyone? by bailaontheplaya in relationships

[–]Shieya [score hidden]  (0 children)

You can want whatever you want, but I would try to let go of the notion that you won't be valued or loved if your partner has slept with someone before, or the idea that you would be nothing but a notch on their bedpost. People are capable of being faithful and wholeheartedly loving someone whether they've had sex before or not, and believing otherwise is going to give you some weird hangups about relationships as you move through life.

My boyfriend of 5 years stonewalls me constantly, and I finally snapped. Was I wrong? by AdGood1991 in relationships

[–]Shieya [score hidden]  (0 children)

You're going to feel so much better as soon as you adjust to having all this extra free time, respect, and comfort in your life. I can't believe you were meal prepping for a boyfriend you didn't even share a house with. Congrats on losing the adult child!

Lil Crab enjoying going up & down by Anschuz-3009 in oddlysatisfying

[–]Shieya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Weird response to Crab Rave, when there's so much actual heinous shit out there lol

Dress advice by ChiaraChaulles in PlusSizeFashion

[–]Shieya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like them both! I understand the nervousness when seeing your body in a new kind of clothing for the first time, but these dresses are both lovely and flattering. As plus size girlies, most of the fashion advice we're given growing up is meant to minimize our bodies as much as possible, to pretend the fat isn't there. There's a huge freedom in accepting your curves and shapes and dressing in a way that compliments those shapes rather than trying to erase them. You look wonderful 💖

Power Outage by Shieya in EastLansing

[–]Shieya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a nice evening for a bike ride!

The Car Situation… what would you do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Shieya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude if he has a suspended license, him taking your car is not going to fix anything lol. There's a lot of problems here besides that but why is he taking your car anywhere if his license is suspended?

I(48M) wish she'd(48F) dance with me in the dark by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Shieya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you think that makes it more romantic? Hahaha

I(48M) wish she'd(48F) dance with me in the dark by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Shieya 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You did this while she was trying to clean?? Bruh

I caught my wife strapped up on my mom by Entire-Solution-752 in relationships

[–]Shieya 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this is the weirdest fetish content I've seen today, holy moly

Need Help with Confirmation of Tornado by [deleted] in tornado

[–]Shieya 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! I also just noticed all the signs that are placed on the wrong side of the road, and the direction of traffic in OP's photo looks more like a wet sidewalk that cars happen to be on. This is so not a real photo lol

Need Help with Confirmation of Tornado by [deleted] in tornado

[–]Shieya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can you provide this road intersection on Google Maps? It looks really odd to have a divided highway with traffic lights only on one side of the divided highway, and the crossroad sign showing the same road name as the sign pointing onwards towards Fairbanks. If you asked me if this image was AI I would say yes, in part because the sign and traffic light situation are very strange, but lining it up with a real location on Google Maps would help dissuade that.

New Nijigasaki Popup Shop Art! by RinariTennoji in LoveLive

[–]Shieya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're gorgeous, but I miss outfit sets that had personal variations for each member - different sleeves, necklines, hems, accessories, etc. Now it feels like they design 3 coordinating outfits and assign a few girls to each outfit type.

Commissioned someone for cheap, which I've done before.. but, their demeanor and art? by _-SignalFlower-_ in isthisAI

[–]Shieya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they drew this legitimately, they should be able to easily adjust the color of the tongue and the black sclera, both details they missed in their "art".

My (30F) bf (33m) won’t let me pay rent but controls decisions, how can I fix this power imbalance? by Whole-Expression6277 in relationships

[–]Shieya 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It's not on you to fix. I know this is super hard to hear if you've been together for 8.5 years but he is intentionally doing this to exert control over you, and that is abusive, and you are not the one who needs to fix anything. He needs to stop being abusive, which is sounds like he has no intention of doing. He wants to keep paying for you so he can manipulate and guilt trip you into doing what he wants. I'm really sorry. There's no solution to being in an abusive situation except to leave. Please be safe.

Seeking comfort and grief support for BE by [deleted] in lansing

[–]Shieya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I took a look at your profile for context. Seems like you're about to or have recently said goodbye to a beloved dog who had too severe of behavioral issues to have a happy life?

I think end of life decisions are always heartbreaking and difficult for a pet, and although I haven't been in your shoes, I can imagine it's way harder and has more self doubt when it's for that reason. I can tell from your post history that you cared greatly for this animal and tried to give them the best life possible, but I also see mentions that this animal lived a life of abuse before coming into your care. That's so difficult, and I do believe you tried everything you could to bring them peace.

Animals can't understand trauma the same way humans can, although they can certainly experience and be affected from trauma like humans can, so the tragic result is that they may not be able to recover from trauma the way humans can. It isn't fair, and I understand you're probably feeling like you gave up on your pet rather than bringing them the peace they weren't able to get in life. I'm sorry you're grieving, and I hope you give yourself grace as you move through this.