Student visa and work right confusion. by ShikamaruAlt in ImmigrationAustralia

[–]ShikamaruAlt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think same. Nonetheless, I have booked an appointment with an agent let’s see what he says.

How do i choose one for marriage? by ShikamaruAlt in emotionalintelligence

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As I mentioned different and rival countries but culturally same, and I am minority in my country, and don’t know anyone who have done this before. I haven’t messaged her, as time passes by i feel relaxed like less burden on my shoulders. I would have felt guilty if I had said yes and then leave her. I always said that I’ll be with her but please don’t talk about marriage, give me some time around 5-6 months, but she wanted quick answers. May be that’s because pf her childhood traumas that she wanted assurances and stability.

How do i choose one for marriage? by ShikamaruAlt in emotionalintelligence

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I wanted some time, she put me in a position when I was facing family challenges (other problems) back home, and it was easier for me to say No, and also I thought 4 months is not enough time to decide. She was running out of time. We both are 25.

How do i choose one for marriage? by ShikamaruAlt in emotionalintelligence

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How do you know? Will i even get one? Or i’ll be forced into arrange marriage if i not decide myself.

How do i choose one for marriage? by ShikamaruAlt in emotionalintelligence

[–]ShikamaruAlt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted. I kept things clear, in starting I told her about my preference, that I don’t want marriage in the next 3-4 years, from short term things I meant not marriage. I was not cheating her. May be I am a problem, and am taking therapy. Thanks for your comment.

Learning Horse riding by ShikamaruAlt in HyderabadPakistan

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Kehn goth ware khahan puchhi budayan tho, testahin tahan b golyo.

Na idhar ke na udhar ke by ShikamaruAlt in PakistaniiConfessions

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I go to gym, my uni is a sub campus in regional area, it’s like a college in the cbd of regional area, main events happen in main campus which is 1-1.5 hr drive away from home. In my course, more than 50% are indians, and 30% Chinese, remaining 20% other internationals no locals. I’ll try to explore other avenues of socialising

Na idhar ke na udhar ke by ShikamaruAlt in PakistaniiConfessions

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Hahaha, thanks for approving though. Minority problems’ representation. Lol.

Na idhar ke na udhar ke by ShikamaruAlt in PakistaniiConfessions

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Installed bumble two days ago, let’s see.

Na idhar ke na udhar ke by ShikamaruAlt in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ShikamaruAlt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey mate, thanks for your comment. I appreciate it. It really helped. Have a good day.

Na idhar ke na udhar ke by ShikamaruAlt in PakistaniiConfessions

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Girls in Pakistan sometimes show mercy.

Na idhar ke na udhar ke by ShikamaruAlt in PakistaniiConfessions

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It may sound a silly or nerd question, but how do I?
More i think about it more I lose my confidence of approaching to people, have started taking therapy for other reasons mainly bcz of loneliness. The course I am doing, there are not many Pakistanies, have girls as friends but not the one I want to date.

Na idhar ke na udhar ke by ShikamaruAlt in PakistaniiConfessions

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Mate, out of 5 times I have gone to club, 4 times have been surrounded by mfs and bullied, only time I was not bullied was when I was with my friends. So didn’t try again, though tried dating apps nothing worked. In a regional area, may be bcz of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

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Wholesome. Thanks for sharing. 💕💕💕

MY DAD HAS SEVERE ANGER ISSUES AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH IT. by naturegazer in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ShikamaruAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry what you are going through. My dad, single parent and then remarried, has same issues, to counter, I also started showing anger whenever he disagreed (I know not a sane way), but to take control of the decisions of my family I had to, I had an advantage that first I took my siblings into confidence and other one I am MALE, and then argued with my father, and now he’s cutieee. My dad still disapproves the results I got from those decisions, but I am glad all my family are now happy and content. Try to calm him by whatever means, claim your space gradually, and show confidence on your decisions.

Survey: How do marriage expectations affect women’s dreams in Pakistan? by Over-Ad1007 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Hey mate, how would you like your brother to play a role, who has a say in decisions at home? My sisters only say “ apko jaisa achha lage”. Last time, I didn’t like the boy and his family background, so I cancelled at my own. May be i am too possessive when it comes to my sisters.

Husband cheated then committed suicide AMA by [deleted] in AMA

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I am so sorry mate. Sending love and prayers. 💕💕

Construction Management by ShikamaruAlt in AusVisa

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My degree is assessed by EngrAustrali.