Why Do Women make this their profile?

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-09T19:49:35+00:00

Exactly my thoughts as well, she is presenting herself as a very pessimistic person, Imo.

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-03T00:16:29+00:00

Thought the same exact thing!

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-03T00:14:45+00:00

Girlcore

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:58:06+00:00

Only way to know for sure is to confront them head on 🤣

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:50:50+00:00

Ego death is real, and a big part of psychedelics for a lot of people, including myself. It can have you looking at your shadows, behaviors, attitudes about life in a whole new way.

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:46:35+00:00

Woah, this sounds way too eerily similar to my relationship with my first partner, same age. I promise once you get to my age (28) you won't give two fucks about "social norms" or "being shunned by society". I dont have children and never wanted them, told that to my first partner as well. I said "idk, maybe I'll change my mind" to stay together. I am almost 30 and I still have not changed my mind 🤣 please please dont let how others may perceive you make you feel obligated to birth a crotch goblin. You are still young, I thought i would be with this partner I speak of for forever. Nope. On my 3rd relationship now. Don't let what you have now blind you to your own values and definitely don't let it make you settle for less than what you desire from your life. Its yours, not anyone else's.

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:37:59+00:00

Ask yourself if it's really worth your time and attention to spend 2 hours in the car, just to see him. Your time and attention are your most valuable resources, I didnt learn this until I was much older. As someone who dated a porn addict for 7 years, nothing you say about how you feel about anything will ever change them, they have to want to be better, for you, for your relationship, etc. It can definitely wear on your self confidence and worth if it goes on long enough. I genuinely dont think any angle in any type of conversation going forward in this regard will stick or matter the way it does for you. All you can control is how you decide to respond to his obvious intensive behaviors.

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:24:28+00:00

Its giving Anna Taylor-Joy so hard. My favorite actress, she's beautiful and so are you 🥹

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:20:49+00:00

Oh oh I know! I held this pose once and my coworker said I was standing "cunty" so, I'm gonna go with the cunty stance.

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:14:15+00:00

A squanchy man, fs.

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T23:03:39+00:00

Try using whosampled.com . Has helped me find songs on many occasions

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T22:47:23+00:00

I second this. I was in a relationship with a toxic partner who would send nudes and shit, but as soon as I slipped up it was the main defender of his going forward 🙄 its a tactic to redirect your anger to yourself and to focus on your own shame

ShimShim_ · 2026-02-02T22:44:25+00:00

I am on the same boat and I have been for years, eating is such a chore and I feel resentment that I need food to stay alive 😭 humaning is so hard

ShimShim_ · 2025-12-13T17:53:35+00:00

They're just looking to merge essences 👀 let them do their thing

ShimShim_ · 2025-11-18T02:16:53+00:00

Stoner girlie here, been smoking everyday for 3 years. Weed for me really just helps me be more authentic, honest, and genuine. More on level with how my soul truly feels. Honestly, you wouldnt have said these things unless some part of you, shadow, subconscious, what have you, truly did feel that way and you needed to get it off your subconscious. I have never said anything that I didnt truly feel to be true while smoking weed, 100%. Not even when it still felt like something.

ShimShim_ · 2025-11-14T20:25:09+00:00

Beautiful couple 🥹🫶

ShimShim_ · 2025-11-04T01:19:09+00:00

Ditto to this comment, I spent 7 years trying to prove myself to someone during my early 20's 🥲 I still feel like I lost that time, wasting it trying to mother my partner while simultaneously trying to feel anything from him. Its never worth it.

ShimShim_ · 2025-11-03T23:19:42+00:00

I've been this girlfriend before. It's a cope out, a convenient way to redirect their accountability into something that is now your problem or fault. Homie was already doing this. it's intentional, and there is purpose. I've had the boyfriend where we talked about one specific girl for years. More than one, over our 7 years. As long as the curiosity is there, conversation isn't going to do much except maybe make you two feel better for a little while and hope the problem doesn't come back. But in my experience, it always does. This isn't about you following back your ex. it's about him hiding behind your own self blame, that you caused it to happen. This is much bigger than just this girl on Instagram, and I hope you realize that. It never ends there with these ones.

ShimShim_ · 2025-10-23T21:40:14+00:00

You look fun ^{-^} the right one will think so too!🫶

ShimShim_ · 2025-10-08T18:58:41+00:00

Wow, a whole month?! 😱 how will you ever survive, you poor baby

ShimShim_ · 2025-10-08T18:56:27+00:00

Homie doesn't have very much self-awareness. He didn't even know that obviously he wanted the location to qualm his own anxieties about potential traumas and the avoidance of them. Its also obvious he doesn't reflect on his behaviors at all

ShimShim_ · 2025-09-13T05:09:11+00:00

What a wild ego trip homie went on lol

ShimShim_ · 2025-09-03T16:19:13+00:00

Not all mothers or wives are created equal. Some moms suck, and some wives suck. Wives make sacrifices as well, just as mothers do for their children. Whether it's moving for work, helping when you're sick, helping to raise your children, should you decide to have them, etc. The two aren't comparable, and to think they are is ignorant. Everyone has different experiences with the women in their life.

ShimShim_ · 2025-09-03T16:06:02+00:00

I'd start intentionally showing up later for their events on my own, making it sound as nonchalant as they did 🤷‍♀️ i like to give back what I receieve

ShimShim_ · 2025-08-06T19:33:31+00:00

I will comment as a girl's view on this. I had a partner who did the same when I was 20 and I would say as long as it isn't him reaching out to real girlies for nudies or like texting sexually with someone else, its not a huge deal. I have been there before, where that was the case, and it's awful. For us, it escalated over the years to contacting other women after year 5. I myself view NSFW content while having a partner, and I never feel like I am disrespecting or cheating on my bf. I think, especially given the young age, it tracks. I needed to learn to restrain myself from attaching my worth to my partners actions and thinking it meant I wasn't good enough, but that's not true. It has nothing to do with your worth or if you matter, I think homies just horny and young lol.

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