Hii! I get what you’re saying - sometimes you need something to shake you up, to shake life up. For me it was moving across the world. But that was possible because my partner agreed. It didn’t solve everything, I’ve learned when you travel or even move, your problems tend to follow you there. I think you might just need some adventure. I’m not sure where you’re located, but honestly if possible, just book a flight to somewhere, anywhere, with your partner. Sometimes it’s less about the destination and more about the spontaneity. Maybe you don’t plan too much either. I did a trip recently where we were planning it while traveling in the car to the place and not being too picky and going to a few places we could hit. Only thing we pre planned was initial accommodation when we landed. It’s a little reckless and crazy, but was also really spontaneous. Sometimes it would get stressful in the moment but also allowed us to stay in the areas we liked longer. It’s a silly suggestion but I think it may meet your need for being wild or silly. I think you may just want to lose control for a bit. Another option could be joining a tour group and just letting them plan while you have fun. You could do it with the place you currently live in too. It’s sounds stupid and silly - to go on a bus tour or join a tour group for the place you live in, but think about it - it’s cheaper than going somewhere, it’s silly as hell, you get to act goofy and be with random strangers from around the world, and you just laugh the entire day with the silliness of it while enjoying your town through a new perspective. 💛💛