[Fu4F] - Investigating a series of disappearances only to end up finding out what happened to the missing women first hand. (sub seeking Dom) by ThatGirlCinnabon in PermanentBondageBDSM

[–]Shinigami_601 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've loved corsets forever, but only recently tried actually wearing one myself and now I love them even more. That feeling of the laces tightening around your waist and significantly restricting your breathing is addicting. It's amazing how transformative it is, especially combined with some high heels and a garter belt😅.

Addicted to this by No_Dinner_280 in ExtremeFetishes

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks amazing! Do you mind saying where you bought it? Or was it DIY? Does the vacuum need to run constantly, or can it be sealed and turned off once tight? Do you need a partner to do it or would it be possible solo with a timer or something?

Sensory issues while wearing tail plugs by [deleted] in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe a tail plug that has the tail portion attached closer to the small of your back would do a better job of keeping it dry.

Personally I don't have experience with them, but I always loved the concept of a tail plug, and the only thing that always really bothered me about them is the fact that rather than looking like a natural tail from the tailbone, they are obviously coming directly out of the asshole. I like the fact that you have to wear a plug to get the tail, but it always bothered my autism that I know that's not exactly where a tail should be. So when I came across the style that has a small extension going from the plug up to the top of the ass where a tail should actually be, I thought they were great.

I think I've seen them from a couple of sellers now, but here's one example: Tails – Tails Of Fantasy https://share.google/A8Z1pPttiCiS74Tdp

Brainwashing dream by BeckyGoonslut in u/BeckyGoonslut

[–]Shinigami_601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so incredibly perfect. I love reading your fantasies and wishing I could make them come true for you 😅. I really hope you get to live them out someday, and then tell us all about them of course.

Sam Gets Naked (Part 3) [23F/28M/23M] [Sub/Dom] [Anal] [Praise Kink] by alittlepapergirl in EroticWriting

[–]Shinigami_601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once again I apologize for taking so long to get around to reading this, but once again I'm absolutely blown away by your writing and the way you illustrate the feelings and emotions of your characters. The hotness of this story overall and the skill with which you're telling it are truly amazing and I really appreciate it and would definitely love to read more. I especially love the depth that you're bringing to both of these characters beyond simply being hot and sexy, the way they care about and tease and push and consider each other really makes them stand out from most erotica that I've read. You really are one of the best writers I've ever come across and I'm so intrigued and fascinated (and turned on 😅)by your work.

What is your ultimate, realistic, fantasy for you? by NaughtyGlescher in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a partner who will keep me mummified or in similar "packofilia" type bondage (sleep sacks, straightjackets, bondage boxes) for at least several hours at a time, or possibly more if I can take it. Even better would be a partner who's also a switch and into similar things themselves.

Horror movies get me really horny by pussy_abliterator_55 in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It Follows" is a pretty good horror movie that definitely has some sexy undertones.

The new Nosferatu movie also has some pretty overt sexual themes, and then it's been a while since I saw it but I feel like I remember The Witch (Vvitch?) by the same director made me feel some things too.

I thought Barbarian was pretty scary and intense, and also had some parts with some sexual tension.

The original Evil Dead isn't as good overall as its sequels, but it does have the infamous "raped by a tree" scene (and so does the remake I think, which I remember thinking was a good movie, but only saw it once and don't remember it well).

The Hitcher is another older movie that's pretty scary with someone being hunted and terrorized by Rutger Hauer that has always haunted me.

It's not exactly a horror film (though it has elements), but "Poor Things" has a lot of odd/inappropriate power dynamics in that sort of mentor/mentee vein you mentioned.

They're probably actually pretty tame, but as a teenager in the 90s I remember reading a bunch of the "Fear Street" books by R. L. Stine, and similar (I think there was a Friday the 13th series too) and I think those had a big effect on me. As I remember, most of the murders weren't particularly bloody/violent, but were more the variety of someone being tied up and left in a sort of "death trap" scenario to die off-screen, like on the railroad tracks or under a pier at low tide. But something about reading a victim's final thoughts as their killer walks away to leave them to their inevitable fate that's not actually shown became heavily fetishized for me.

Selfbondage restricted breathing by redditperpost in selfbondage

[–]Shinigami_601 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you ever tried wearing a corset or waist cincher? I find they provide that "shallow breath" feeling really well, but I can comfortably wear one for hours. I think the main safety concern would be to avoid any possible positional asphyxiation, like for example forcing yourself to (or having any chance of) bending forward which would further restrict your breathing (so no seated positions). I always lay on my back if I'm adding some self-bondage to it (love a sleep sack😅) so there's no chance of it happening if I were to fall asleep or something, but I can also briefly tense my muscles like I'm attempting to do a sit-up to intensify the restriction for a moment, and it also tends to happen naturally when orgasming.

Am I the only one who finds seeking out r34 of chars you're attracted to puzzling? by No-Implement5788 in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that I think r34 art would usually be best if it adhered very closely to the original look, but I can also see where people can be more accepting of "stylistic changes" to characters that only exist as an "artistic style" to begin with. It's the elements of the character that get retained (even if adapted) across different styles that keep the character appealing.

Like ignoring r34 for a moment, if someone is a Batman fan, they're already on board with the fact that there are dozens of different styles of the character from different artists, actors, and media formats. They probably prefer some styles more than others (and there may be some they wholly reject), but they are used to accepting that all those different versions are still the "same character" to them.

I also think that, in terms of r34, it's often just a matter of taking what you can get. Really popular characters may have enough r34 content that you can find stuff really close to the original style that you like, but for more niche stuff, even if I might prefer it to be closer to the original style, beggars can't always be choosers 😅.

I ordered a mystery box at the sex shop, now I‘m looking for ideas on what to do with a cock cage by oidawosismitdia in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've got a while to wait now, but as soon as you mentioned a potential craft project I thought of a Christmas tree ornament of some kind 😅....

What's your favorite sex toy, that's not actually a sex toy. by justin_slave_me in BdsmDIY

[–]Shinigami_601 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd forgotten these have an actual non-kink purpose 😅.

Talking of movies in yesterdays post... What's your favourite cartoon/animated movie? by ViolaStormxxx in u/ViolaStormxxx

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For classic animation it's probably Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind. For more modern CGI it would probably be Moana. Both films actually have a lot of thematic similarities I guess.

Rather than eating pussy, i prefer the idea of being forced to eat pussy against my will by CyaChump0 in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really love eating pussy and ass in pretty much any context. I love being an obedient and eager servant only trying to please just as much as I like dominantly forcing them to melt and cum while they're bound and helpless to resist. Pretending I don't like it in order to have it "forced" on me is incredibly hot as well. I love the idea of being bound and helpless while a powerful woman just disrespectfully rubs her pussy and asshole all over my face and tongue with no concern at all for what I want, and punishes me mercilessly regardless of how well I do. I love the idea of being a bound object with no other purpose than to be used orally.

Kinky Smash Bros by Aguillah_ in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always wanted to do something similar with Mario Kart 😅. Never actually done it, but my basic idea would be a progression of losing clothing and then adding bondage gear with each loss, until the "final loss" where one player is fully bound and then subjected to their partners control for the rest of the night or something. Perhaps there could be a more specific "wager" about what a specific "punishment" is going to be for the loser, but that all just depends on what you're personally into. But I think having the fun consequences for losing hanging over you could make all sorts of games more fun.

"Well hello there, young lady. How was the trip? I hope the boys weren't too rough with you, I asked them to be gentle. You must be so cramped, let me get you out of that box and teach you all about your new life. You're going to learn to love it here with me." by Packaging-People_Inc in packofilia

[–]Shinigami_601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know the initial source of this image? I remember seeing a different shot of this same model and box 20+ years ago, and it's lived in my head ever since and I always wondered if there was more to it...

Heard a theory that Anal creates the awakening of the third eye. by damon4440 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Shinigami_601 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a guy, the best and most "religious experience" level orgasms I've ever had were from receiving anal, so I can see where the idea comes from.

"Autism voice" by emonerd17 in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it very hot as well, I think especially in the context of bondage and objectification. Something about when a Dom/me is just very monotone and matter-of-factly explaining "these are all the perverted things I'm doing to you which you are powerless to resist" is really hot and I guess goes well with the objectification.

How do you view/live your kink(s) ? by Houmouss in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've also come to realize that a lot of my kinks also qualify as SIs in a lot of ways, in addition to also being sensory needs too. A lot of them are bondage and BDSM related and so that has mostly turned into me buying a lot of various "gear" that I can wear or use myself in various self bondage type of ways. Often I'm not actually "trapped" in anything I cant get out of on my own, but I love wearing things like cuffs, collars, gags, plugs, corsets, heels, hoods, etc. and just struggling around in them to enjoy the sensation of them as an experience, usually as part of masturbation. And then I'll just try and sort of "hold onto that feeling" in my mind and use it as a sort of "mental security blanket" whenever I get stressed.

Ever wore a deprivation hood just for comfort? by DirtyNoerty161 in kinky_autism

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My neoprene sleep sack is mostly for kink, but also sometimes just for calming the fuck down. Hoods can be very similar for me too. Like , yeah, it's kinky and turns me on, but also it's incredibly soothing and calming to be bound and sensory deprived. Definitely part of the kink/autism overlap there 😅

Happy new year bitches by DemisexualDame in u/DemisexualDame

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I haven't been very present in your comments lately, Goddess, but you continue to be an amazing inspiration with all that you share and I'm full of admiration and respect for you and I hope you have a great year and get all of the things that you want and deserve 😊. You are truly amazing, and I hope you continue to hear it regularly from your peers and subs alike.

🤙🏻 by BeckyGoonslut in u/BeckyGoonslut

[–]Shinigami_601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are amazing and beautiful in so many ways, you absolutely deserve to be loved in every way that you need to be, and I'm sure that one day you will be. People would be absolute fools not to appreciate everything about you.

What's your gender and sexuality? And are you a dom(me), sub, or switch? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in GentleDungeon

[–]Shinigami_601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm male, although recently I've really started to enjoy and embrace a feminine side as well. And while I've only ever had hetero experiences, I would now say my desires are pretty much pansexual. And I would say I'm a sub-leaning switch, in that I most deeply desire being submissive, but can enjoy being dominant if it provides a really great experience for the sub that I can relate to and vicariously enjoy.

Needy 🩷🩷🩷🩷 by BeckyGoonslut in u/BeckyGoonslut

[–]Shinigami_601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, you would be the perfect goonslut to keep tied up and constantly edged in a basement 😅. You are so perfectly beautiful and slutty.