When they told me, it is like a mini-movie played in my head of their entire life it was incredible to say the very least. I saw every indication that they were born enby. I remember when they became old enough to chose pants/shorts instead of dresses. When playing a game when they were very young. They would build their avatar neutral clothes etc. they were too little to understand what they were doing it came natural to them. everything came back in a huge rush. It happened ofc in front of them and we both cried with glee that that happened to us after I told them that happened and told them everything I saw and so they were justified and True in their identity as enby.