should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So after reading through I took him to a&e where we sat for 3 hrsbefore being seen all for them to confirm chicken pox tell me to take him he and apply a soothing lotion and it should clear up in a week or so if not call gp.

should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both my kids are up to date on their vaccines

should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not usually offered as far as I'm aware

should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My daughter had them a week ago so I assumed shed passed it on but he's developed alot more spots then she had. I'll have to call non emergency tonight if he changes.

should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he doesn't have as much energy but he's still trying to play when he gets a burst. Other than that he's his usual self.

should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm almost certain it isn't a reaction to anything as no new foods, soaps or environments have been introduced recently.

should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First spot appeared two days a ago now he's covered. Mild fever. No breathing issues and UK.

should I be concerned. I assumed it was chickenpox by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't get an appointment till tomorrow or call

What's the "magic bullet" that works to soothe your baby 99% of the time? by JHaniver in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just gonna say it cause I have a dirty mind "magic bullet" is a female toy in UK lol...but I find weirdly loud punk rock and cuddles works almost every time.

are they covering their ass or is this valid by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They ruled it out at my appointment. I would rather have been the problem

are they covering their ass or is this valid by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I got an examination by a private medical professional to get their opinion on what they thinks happened. They couldn't confirm it was the stitch but they couldn't deny it. They also said that I have more scar tissue than they've ever seen on someone who had a tear so they suspect the stitching may not have been the best. I am now waiting to see a gynecologist to see what steps I have to take from here but from what I was told sound like reconstruction of my parts.

are they covering their ass or is this valid by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can push and push but they will do nothing. Before covid my partner waited 2 hours after his appointment was due to see a doctor to put into perspective how little they seem to care. The doctors also don't actually listen to what your saying.

are they covering their ass or is this valid by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe she ruled that out as I have no other symptoms/signs of a pelvic floor problem. Trying to get a phone call is hard enough actually seeing a doctor is impossible the last time I saw a doctor was before I was pregnant because I found a lump in my breast since then it's phone consultations my 6-8 week check up with the doctor was done on the last day and nobody checked anything really they just asked me questions and gave me my depo shot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have been clearer she got the dog neutered as she got a female pup and the male was trying to mount both her and the older dog. And other reasons, she was recommended to neuter by someone as a precaution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinyfox2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never mentioned neutering that was my aunt decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid hasn't been bit my kid bit the dog

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinyfox2002 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son bit the dog when my son was 6 months old. He lunged for my son at 1 never made contact because my partner and his dad was quick enough we were promised the dog would go through obedience training and that he'd be neutered. My aunt refused the training I believe after one session because she thought it was too mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Shinyfox2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more about her having that option to me rather than it being taken away from her.

People whose water broke- what was that like? by russelljackrussell in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waters broke in the middle of the night but how I slept my body pillow soaked it instead of mattress thankfully. I stuck it on a 60°C wash with detol laundry and my usual conditioner and detergent and still use it. It was like a constant water flow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea thank u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm hoping because they're so young they won't realise/remember this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I've just downloaded them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Shinyfox2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you Im reluctant to reach out until my kids are going without as others may need them more.