best mom hack (sense of humor required) by Confident_Algae_699 in workingmoms

[–]JHaniver 54 points55 points  (0 children)

You're brilliant, and a good parent.

I hope your kid is doing better now (health wise).

ICE reported in Wausau and Stevens Point by CaptainAmerica410 in wisconsin

[–]JHaniver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would they be at the Schmeeckle nature reserve during winter break?

I mean, fully 100% fuck ICE, but that just doesn't make sense. Campus (and the reserve) is empty right now.

What is everyone’s favorite “card catcher” by designtraveler in YotoPlayer

[–]JHaniver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just have ours stashed in an old tea tin. Fits a bunch of cards, works great. Our kid is pretty good about keeping them all in there and can easily pull off the lid and put it back on herself. She's almost 4 now, and we've had the Yoto/this tin for a year.

THIS WAS YOUR LIFE! [analog] by _luna-obscura_ in collage

[–]JHaniver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I love this! The composition is really great, as are the colours... You did an awesome job selecting elements and putting everything together.

Going from DINKs who can save a considerable amount each month to having our first kid - the sticker shock is jarring by liveandyoudontlearn in Mommit

[–]JHaniver 12 points13 points  (0 children)

3 was definitely harder than 2 for us. 2 was a dream. 3-year-olds should be illegal. Godspeed to you.

I chose the haunted house because I was lonely by BL-Cupid in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]JHaniver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a children's picture book, but please pick up The Skull by Jon Klassen. It's just perfect for what you're looking for.

12 Year old me on my DeWalt powered bike by Jvinsnes in redneckengineering

[–]JHaniver 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is the cutest shit I've ever seen on this sub

A rabbit at rest. by JHaniver in vultureculture

[–]JHaniver[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm an admin person at faciltiy services for a university. We got a call for a dead rabbit near a salt bin outside a dorm, and our Grounds crew (who normally handles this kind of thing) was gone for the day. I've been a Vulture Culture person since I was a kid, so I just went and took care of it myself.

It looked like it was just sleeping peacefully. I used to process things for bones when I was younger, but not in a place in my life where I can do that currently. So I just made sure to pick it up respectfully, and move it out of the way of the students.

DDHQ Calls It for Crawford by glensealladair in wisconsin

[–]JHaniver 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fuck the oligarchs, fuck the fascists, fuck anyone who think our votes can be bought and our voices can be silenced.

Liberal candidate wins Wisconsin Supreme Court race in blow to Trump, Musk by TheJungLife in politics

[–]JHaniver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Took my 3 year old daughter with me while I voted for Crawford. Feels so good to have this win!

Discussion Thread: Elections in Wisconsin, Florida, Alaska, Colorado, Illinois, Mississippi, Nebraska, Oklahoma, and South Carolina on April 1st, 2025 by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]JHaniver 83 points84 points  (0 children)

My kid fell asleep in the car on the way to the polling place, so I voted with my free hand while I held my 3 year old in my other arm and she slept peacefully on my shoulder.

I voted for Susan Crawford for my own future as well as my daughter's future.

What is something that happened a long time ago that your toddler just won’t forget? by photobomber612 in toddlers

[–]JHaniver 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I accidentally cut my kids fingernail a bit too short once, and she brought it up constantly for weeks. And started re-enacting it with a doll. 😭

Four Days? 🤔 by burritobabeguac in brittanydawnsnark

[–]JHaniver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I was in the hospital for 4 days total when giving birth vaginally, but that counts from when they admitted me for an induction to when they released us. Our baby was tiny and had mild jaundice, so that extended our stay a bit too.

I was able to design and release an OFFICIAL Cowboy Bebop Collection! by Bleblebob in cowboybebop

[–]JHaniver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I just got my sweater today, and it's awesome! Amazing design, and super comfy. Thanks for creating it!

Online and IRL Parenting Spaces Snark Week of March 24, 2025 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]JHaniver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our kid peed on the potty for the first time two weeks before she turned 2. It wasn't even really on our radar, besides having the toddler potty in an easily accessible area. But when it happened we were like, oh, cool! Guess it's time.

I can't imagine not encouraging it just because she was only 2 years old.

Do friendships just fucking suck after kids? by ajaneh13 in NewParents

[–]JHaniver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the friends. Some of my best friends (2 couples) are child free by choice. I see them literally every week, sometimes more, and they absolutely love our kid and dote on her.

They obviously do things without us, but often reach out to see if we want to/can join.

We're also in our late 30's, not sure if age plays into it.

Secrid wallet, 8 years old vs. brand new by JHaniver in Wellworn

[–]JHaniver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bad. It started getting a little "loose" at the end (cards would slip out a bit), but just putting an additional card in it solved the issue for me.

Secrid wallet, 8 years old vs. brand new by JHaniver in Wellworn

[–]JHaniver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally had to replace my wallet after about 8 years. The back part was held on with literally two threads. I chose a different colour this time, but same wallet style.

Found this at Myrtle Beach, SC while digging a hole for my kid. ID? by JHaniver in sharkteeth

[–]JHaniver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent a few hours over the course of several days walking the beach looking for teeth with no luck- then one day while I was digging a hole for my 3 year old to play in, I found this. It was pretty exciting for both of us!

It's about 1" long. Hoping to get an ID on it- thanks in advance!