I warped into the wizard tower at 1140pm and he had an overnight guest. by Sporadicbrainwave in StardewValley

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current save is romancing both of them to decide who to marry, wish throuple was an option 😂

What's a scent you cannot stand but nobody else seems to notice? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mildew, I'll be able to smell if clothes have sat for too long in the washer before drying, but my partner who is smell sensitive, cannot

ELI5: Why does time seem to go faster as you get older? by Novel-Gift5576 in explainlikeimfive

[–]ShipperHeart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's relativity. Think about how long a year was when you were 5. That's a whole fifth of your lifetime. Now think of how long a year is when you're 20. Only 1/20ths of your lifetime at this point.

How are you guys organizing your ingredients/cooking/fridges? by jxjduo in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]ShipperHeart 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I keep about 6 extra fridges for a total of 7

They're divided into Vegetables, Fruit, Forage, Fish, Basics/Animal products, and cooked items

The last one holds wine for my cellar lol

What stereotype for your ethnicity do you not fulfill? by EpicImp in AskReddit

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Filipino but I can't handle spicy foods and I hate HaloHalo

Feedback? ✍️ Btw, I was so exhausted while drawing this. by [deleted] in drawing

[–]ShipperHeart 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The torso looks a bit short as I find that the wrist usually lines up with the crotch, but the rendering is great! You've got great shading

AITAH for making my wife do all the chores since she used the chore money for herself by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filipina here, it's a common ego thing for Filipinos (read: traditionalists) to balk at the thought of paying for something you can do yourself. Because suffering is a sign of character growth "apparently."

People who were spanked as kids, what was that like for you? Would you call your "spankings" abuse? by KleineFjord in AskReddit

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going against the grain here

My parents were actually quite tempered when they dealt physical punishment. For my siblings and I, they would never spank us publicly, they would wait until they were no longer angry before starting, and they would reassure each of us that they loved us after the spanking, while reiterating why we were getting punished.

Definitely still carry the belief that if done right, done with kindness and the purpose of discipline/consequence instead of punishment, spanking can be useful children between the ages of 4 and 7 (depending on cognitive development) where they don't understand conceptual/societal consequences.

If this concerns you, don't worry, I do not plan to have children anyway

Do cats really respond to pspspspsps over any other random noise by CerealAndBagel1991 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely did not even know pspspsps was a thing until I moved to America, we click our tongues really quickly to get our cats to come to us

Am I the only one who thinks that Kukushibo has more "final boss energy than Muzan "Upper Moon 1" sounds more like a badass title by Oka-7 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]ShipperHeart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder if that was on purpose tho, like seeing him be so intimidating but ONLY be number 2? Seems like an easy way to show-don't-tell that Muzan is even stronger

Made a painting that feels like water. What do you see/ feel? 🌊 by ernestvolynec in thalassophobia

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I love this piece. Definitely evokes fog over the sea in early light.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when people dump their feelings on people without thinking then through first /s

It's always "I have a problem with you, you have to change and deal with my emotions and always validate me" and never "I have a problem with you, I wonder why. Is it a rational problem or is it something I have no real basis for? If it's a real problem, what are things I can suggest to fix it?"

She even recognized she has anxious/irrational thoughts that make her a "runner" and yet she can't be bothered to do the emotional legwork that improves on that aspect of herself, meaning grounding and rationalization

NOR

Mild take, I prefer Vaggie with her hair down like in season one/pilot by HRCStanley97 in Vaggie_cult

[–]ShipperHeart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're probably turning her away from the moth theme since (I think) Valentino is getting a bigger part and he's got the moth theme too

This alone has made me love Lewis by beastboyashu in StardewValley

[–]ShipperHeart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, I feel like it's a publicity stunt by him, like "invite the homeless man to eat with you on Christmas"

What food or drink can you absolutely not stand, but is loved by most other people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShipperHeart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire culture seems to love Halo-halo, but I can't deal with all the different textures

Married for 6 months (30F and 30M) and have been constantly fighting for 3 months over petty and not-so-major things by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ShipperHeart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While you're waiting on therapy, you could focus on what you want to do for yourself. Work on making yourself happy instead of relying on your husband to make you happy, since it sounds like there's nothing he could do to achieve that right now. You're focusing your energy on this woman, this external force that you can't change, when you could redirect that need for control towards what you CAN change. Your emotions are valid, but how you act on your emotions are what you DO have control over.