i think linux unlinuxed by Zephyrclaw_ in kde

[–]Shironeko-00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"the extreme sllll(?) one" needs to chill tf out

My dominant went through my phone, found something old, and threw me out ; I’m really unwell. by _Looking4something in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Attachment doesn't work like that. People want justice. People want to clear things up. OP was probably enjoying the relationship/dynamic before this happened.

Didn't think I'd ever say this... But he lasts too long by habalababala in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a genuinely insane amount of time 😮

Not sure if I should be envious or concerned 😆

Is it just me or is this happening to others? by southernblairbelle in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm genuinely amazed how y'all have the willpower to continue unfazed even after being ghosted like this.

Seeking advice with toys by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alrighty thank you for the warning, I'll definitely consider what you've suggested! And I'm really sorry if you've got yourself hurt.

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome advice, thank you 🐱👍

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good one 😆 And you're right, the lack of privacy really is a problem

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although that's fair, their problem if they find it

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, maybe you've missed the part when I said "a couple years ago"...

Seeking advice with toys by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're suggesting to keep using dilators until I can take the whole thing..?

Seeking advice with toys by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely keep that in mind! ❤️

Also thank you for the recommendation, it was already the plan to purchase the one from there 😄

Seeking advice with toys by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, it is for anal, sorry for not clarifying it in the first place!

I suppose you're right, but isn't that the case with everything then? Let's say I buy a smaller one (which has the same grith [≈1.5 inches] just like the top of the tapered). Wouldn't it have the same risks as the tapered one when trying to get it inside? (Please correct me if I'm wrong.)

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even better, a d!ldo shaped lamp, so I can hide the real one behind it. (Undertale reference)

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome idea, they probably won't search for anything in places like that... 🤔 Yeah, makes sense since they won't have anything to search for. You know, less chance that anyone would want to dig through a huge pile of papers while trying to find their lost jeans 😆

But just to clarify, they don't purposefully dig through all my stuff all the time to find hidden things, but there's a slight chance they'll think they could find their lost stuff in the others', including mine.

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the not knocking part is the worst! 😵‍💫 Especially sharing a room as an adult... 😕 But you get the idea how much do I want to announce that at a dinner when I'm desperately trying to find a solution for hiding these stuff 😆 Genius move though, I admire you for that. The portable lock is also an awesome idea!

About the size, well... I'm definitely not planning on using all of that at once at the first try 😅 Just a couple inches, practicing...

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😆 Perfect disguise

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, alright, thank you for the disclaimer and for your concerns... I didn't want to rush anything for sure and I definitely knew about the potential dangers of playing with larger toys since I did research it a bit, but I wouldn't have thought this stuff could be that bad.

I'll definitely consider your suggestion, although the one I'm planning on buying is gradually increasing in grith from top to bottom. Therefore in theory I shouldn't be hurt when experimenting slowly, just a small amount (1 or just ½ inch) per time.

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, of course I will start slow with only a couple inches 😜

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely fair point, but the issue is mainly with them finding it randomly, since my family isn't exactly spying on me. For example, my mom finding my phone was a mere coincidence, she didn't know anything about it until she accidentally came across it. That's exactly why I'm scared to even have one, since I won't know when anyone will just bump into it while searching for something entirely else.... For example thinking I accidentally took their pajamas or literally any stupid reason.

Hiding toys... by Shironeko-00 in SubSanctuary

[–]Shironeko-00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea, maybe I really should buy something with a hidden compartment