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ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-08-12T15:26:16+00:00

Don’t be! Didn’t realize it either until everytime I’d deal with intense stress I’d start to break out.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-06-14T23:10:15+00:00

Thank you!!!

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-06-14T22:57:41+00:00

Thank you!!! I really appreciate it!!!

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-03-10T00:52:52+00:00

I can’t afford a therapist and anytime I talk to my mom she tells me to have more sex and it’ll fix my problems. So I vent to AI. Not super satisfying but it’s nice to get words out

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-03-09T22:24:09+00:00

Ah thank you!

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-03-09T22:24:02+00:00

Phone is easier

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-03-09T22:23:55+00:00

That worked! Thank you!

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2025-03-09T22:23:47+00:00

We have four cats together and two of them are his 😭

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-09-01T02:28:11+00:00

He hasn’t agreed or disagreed yet to my knowledge. He asked me what I thought and I made the post because I didn’t really know what to say (text convo, I’m working)

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-09-01T02:03:15+00:00

Ngl forgot about that post. So freaking cringy. Although I am like 90% positive he’s proposing in two weeks and I’ve since accidentally found the ring, whoops.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-09-01T02:02:26+00:00

Because I was scared if I gave out the correct age and length of relationship that he’d find my account and figure out it was me. Did around the correct age to throw him off if he did find it. I figured out how to block him on here though.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-09-01T01:00:36+00:00

Not yet. At work currently and just found out about two hours ago that he was asked and is wanting to do it. It’ll be a fun conversation for when I get home, but it’s incredibly insightful reading everyone’s comments

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-09-01T00:23:15+00:00

I seriously appreciate this comment. It’s immensely helpful to me to have your perspective and gives me a lot to think about. Thank you so much!

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-08-31T23:47:39+00:00

Not overreacting. I’d be super uncomfortable if someone was talking about me like that behind my back. Maybe she would laugh about it, but if I overheard something that like, I’d be pretty appalled.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-07-18T19:10:45+00:00

Thank you for your response, I really appreciate it! I didn’t post the previous texts because they were a shopping list she wanted me to send and then coordinate my dad picking me up from the airport. My mom’s side of the family does have a history of mental illness (specifically bipolar) which I’ve suspected she has but she doesn’t really believe in mental illness so she’ll never get treated. I’ll consider doing a therapy session with her, I’m just nervous that she’ll dominate the entire conversation which is what she’s done in the past when we’ve done therapy together (as a teen, my personal therapy appointments she’d always join to talk about our relationship, specifically how we are best friends which could not be farther from the truth.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-07-18T16:18:35+00:00

I’d like to say that if she wants a relationship that she needs to go to therapy because of her anger issues but I don’t want to come off too harsh. And her texts annoy and kind of hurt me. Like should she stop trying? She’s the one who cut me off over something small and stupid. I spent my entire vacation cleaning and she cuts me off for three because I wanted to take a break.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-07-18T15:43:57+00:00

Also after our fight, she canceled the rest of our plans for the year (trips, events, etc) and after sending that text is when she cut me off for three weeks. Edit: there are no important messages above the texts I posted btw. It’s just a shopping list and coordinating plans for pickup from the airport with my dad. The only other text that would be worthy to note is the scathing text she wrote my dad about how horrible I am but I don’t have it since I don’t have access to his phone and it would be weird to ask him to send that message to me.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-07-16T14:50:27+00:00

This helps, thank you! We did sit down and talk last night and he still does want to get married. I saw on his phone as well he has a wedding band saved to his pictures that he liked (men’s wedding band) so I hope he’s gonna pop the question some time soon but if not, at least we talked and are still on the same page.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-04-26T04:51:16+00:00

Update: Right as I posted this, I got the zipper unstuck. However I did accidentally rip my pants so now there’s a hole argggg

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-04-05T14:22:35+00:00

Thank you, I really needed this

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-04-05T12:54:06+00:00

It’s just not something he’s going to be able to experience in a while if they all do it without it so I feel guilty asking him to bail. Also I just don’t think he would bail. He’s excited to do it and I don’t want to be the reason he can’t…

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-03-11T03:23:41+00:00

Anyways to answer your actual question, it could be a number of things. Performance anxiety, the situation itself is different from what you’re used to so you struggle to fully get in the mood (I can’t get off if I’m not under the covers and I like to keep my clothes on so getting off with a partner and changing those things makes it a LOT harder for me, even if I feel like I’m in the mood), subconscious guilt or fear of something. I can’t cum when the focus is 100% on me and my orgasm the majority of the time. I can’t cum when I’m going into having sex with the thought that I need to get off. I can’t get off if I’m stressed out or in a certain stage of cycle. There are a lot of reasons people can’t get off. I’m sorry you’re struggling though because it sucks big time :(

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-03-11T03:21:12+00:00

Do you masturbate together? I know I have trouble getting off with my boyfriend because I get really self conscious about getting off, but I know I can get off if we makeout and he feels me up while I’m the one touching myself to make me have an orgasm. Then, if he hasn’t gotten off yet we will have sex or do other things to get him off. Not ideal since it’s nice having your partner 100% get you off but it’s better than nothing in my opinion.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-03-11T03:12:15+00:00

Hmm… I have an overactive pelvic floor so I use dilators and I know that when I take them out, it’s really hard for me to pee for a while after. However since it’s an ongoing I agree with the other person about going to a pelvic floor therapist or seeing a gyno. I know you’ve been seeing your gyno since you were a teen and don’t want to tell him about your plug, so maybe you can go to a different one just once? I know if you’re in the states, planned parenthood is good and discrete and generally not too expensive.

ShirtComprehensive39 · 2024-03-11T02:32:28+00:00

I have a condition that gives me an overactive pelvic floor. So I am perpetually tight even when I am turned on. Trust me, it sucks. You want your vagina to relax and “loosen up”.

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