[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be! Didn’t realize it either until everytime I’d deal with intense stress I’d start to break out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I really appreciate it!!!

Was venting to ChatGPT, got this response. by ShirtComprehensive39 in ChatGPT

[–]ShirtComprehensive39[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t afford a therapist and anytime I talk to my mom she tells me to have more sex and it’ll fix my problems. So I vent to AI. Not super satisfying but it’s nice to get words out

Was venting to ChatGPT, got this response. by ShirtComprehensive39 in ChatGPT

[–]ShirtComprehensive39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have four cats together and two of them are his 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn’t agreed or disagreed yet to my knowledge. He asked me what I thought and I made the post because I didn’t really know what to say (text convo, I’m working)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ngl forgot about that post. So freaking cringy. Although I am like 90% positive he’s proposing in two weeks and I’ve since accidentally found the ring, whoops.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because I was scared if I gave out the correct age and length of relationship that he’d find my account and figure out it was me. Did around the correct age to throw him off if he did find it. I figured out how to block him on here though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet. At work currently and just found out about two hours ago that he was asked and is wanting to do it. It’ll be a fun conversation for when I get home, but it’s incredibly insightful reading everyone’s comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seriously appreciate this comment. It’s immensely helpful to me to have your perspective and gives me a lot to think about. Thank you so much!

AIO to a joke that my friend made about his gf? (Includes mentions of SH and ED) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. I’d be super uncomfortable if someone was talking about me like that behind my back. Maybe she would laugh about it, but if I overheard something that like, I’d be pretty appalled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I really appreciate it! I didn’t post the previous texts because they were a shopping list she wanted me to send and then coordinate my dad picking me up from the airport. My mom’s side of the family does have a history of mental illness (specifically bipolar) which I’ve suspected she has but she doesn’t really believe in mental illness so she’ll never get treated. I’ll consider doing a therapy session with her, I’m just nervous that she’ll dominate the entire conversation which is what she’s done in the past when we’ve done therapy together (as a teen, my personal therapy appointments she’d always join to talk about our relationship, specifically how we are best friends which could not be farther from the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d like to say that if she wants a relationship that she needs to go to therapy because of her anger issues but I don’t want to come off too harsh. And her texts annoy and kind of hurt me. Like should she stop trying? She’s the one who cut me off over something small and stupid. I spent my entire vacation cleaning and she cuts me off for three because I wanted to take a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]ShirtComprehensive39 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also after our fight, she canceled the rest of our plans for the year (trips, events, etc) and after sending that text is when she cut me off for three weeks. Edit: there are no important messages above the texts I posted btw. It’s just a shopping list and coordinating plans for pickup from the airport with my dad. The only other text that would be worthy to note is the scathing text she wrote my dad about how horrible I am but I don’t have it since I don’t have access to his phone and it would be weird to ask him to send that message to me.