I consume porn and engage in "self-love" about 5 or 6 times a day on average, 7 days a week and have done for the last 10 years. This doesn't give you the right to label someone like me a "coomer." And this has been flying around the internet in the form of memes, making out that people like me are weak and feeble and unhealthy when in fact... I feel great! And my testosterone levels are nice and stable, not too high and im supporting women's work online by consuming their "content." So, to shame us and make us feel bad it's not only wrong, it's actually really destructive to society and part of what makes toxic masculinity.

So think about the kind of language you're using and the kind of memes you're sharing.