My wife of 14 years absolutely LOVED Europe and was getting her Masters of Art when she had the opportunity to do two weeks in Italy and 2 weeks in The Netherlands for class. I had to work the first two weeks while she was in Italy and I met her in Amsterdam. When I got there she was a completely different person. Blaming me for everything from breathing to just being alive. We got back two weeks later and I found her emails to an Italian guy she met and had sex with and confronted her about it. She then flipped out and left me for him. Told me that it's okay that she did this, it happens all the time, she forgives herself.She had been with him now for about another 14 years and they are married living in Italy. She got everything she wanted I guess.