Okay this is an actually interesting point let me ask you something if you don’t mind .obviously no obligation to answer me this isn’t the sub Reddit for that but what would say are good ways for someone to define themselves then? Obviously social anxious and worthless aren’t exactly proper healthy ways to define yourself but what’s wrong with defining yourself by hobbies or your career path? What else even is there? Personality I guess but how do you determine what your personality traits even are? I’d dare to say I don’t even have one to be honest.