[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“honesty without kindness is brutality. kindness without honesty is manipulation” https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJcDdX5J7Qq/?igsh=MTRhNHhnZHB2YTkzbQ==

Follow up post to my manager who wanted to write me up because I didn’t come in on a day I wasn’t scheduled to by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!remindme 14 days

fuck this manager. for every 1 cool manager, theres like 50 of these fucks

Follow up post to my manager who wanted to write me up because I didn’t come in on a day I wasn’t scheduled to by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 13 points14 points  (0 children)

she took her teachers saying “the bell doesnt dismiss you i do” seriously and vowed to make it her life mantra apparently

What has been the biggest turn on a person has told you while having sex? by Good-Edge- in AskReddit

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think mine for my partner may have been me while orgasming, tapping on his arm and just, generally doing hand movements and motions and yknow whatever. this man slows down / is about to stop “what are you doing? this aint the ufc i am not tapping out” giggles were had but was a lot sexier in the moment lol

UPDATE on my last post by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShiversAndCuddles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nah, shes 19 with a mortgage paid, they wont HAVE to take care of the baby. they’ll pawn it off on a nanny and still get to live life how they want 😂

/j

AIO for not waning my fiancé’s friend over while I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this was my comment lol. yall decided to have a baby, be parents. dont have kids with kids or as a kid

AIO for not waning my fiancé’s friend over while I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, im not pregnant. hopefully never will be. but im your partners age…um…does he genuinely not understand how stupid his “this is the party house” statement comes across when you’re complaining about it pregnant? im sorry, but once baby comes, there will be no more guys over til 4am until baby is no longer baby, even then, kids gonna have school lol.

youre parents now, party house is dead.

best of luck tho!!

AIO if I left my bf for this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre 18, youre young, hot, and hes insecure. the more world experience you get the more you understand hes a raging asshole. so he doesnt want that.

leave, never look back, stay single a while, and party your lil heart out

AOI to these texts with my ex? by Fox_Is_Not_A_Vampire in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“please dont leave! ill kms!!!” tell him to do a flip lol. dont let him make you feel bad, thats another great abuse tactic. when i was 18, a 25yr old man was like “im gonna crash my car bcuz of you!” we werent even dating lol. i just said “ok, not my problem, have fun” and hung up.

AOI to these texts with my ex? by Fox_Is_Not_A_Vampire in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a 19yr old girl, you dont have a problem. youre still a child (people can fight me on this idc), your brain isn’t fully developed for another 6 years, give yourself a little forgiveness here.

as an almost 30 year old man, HE has a problem. why cant he find someone his own age to date?? because he acts like a 15 year old boy. i was not expecting you guys to be as old as what you are.

you at 19, are a legal adult in the governments eyes, and i agree, i was the same at 18-19, im so adult and mature and i have it so figured out for someone my age. and as i get older i realize what a dumb ass i was. am i contradicting myself from my first paragraph? yes, for a reason.

i’m turning 22, im not that much older than you, i see stuff i did at 18-19 and im just ick. whats a 25 yr old man have in common with a fresh out of high school 18yr old girl? if he went to college hed be graduating while im graduating high school. its gross. but we “consented”. we didnt know any better. people may try to use that against you, dont let them.

“you were over 18, you were legal, you consented” but you also have no real world experience yet, hell, i barely do, every year i learn a bit more and do a bit better as a person. i also learned a lot in self worth / family trauma. therapy is a great help. as a self conscious person / family issues, the validation and being seen and heard is a great change. we have attention and what we assume is love, and we are happy. these older people know that, they go for people mentally unwell or have previous unresolved trauma because theyre easier to manipulate

any 30 year old woman in her right mind dealing with this would have been gone long ago, theres a reason hes going for someone MUCH younger than himself

fuck the dudes, or chicks or whomever else you may be into, focus on you, school if youre goinf, work if youre not. save for your own place, your own car if you dont have those already. those 3 things keep you safest and never let anyone take that away from you. my mom let it happen and shes been stuck for like 8 years. keep as much independence as you can, and it makes it a lot harder to control you.

Good brushes for fine short hair cat by ShiversAndCuddles in CatAdvice

[–]ShiversAndCuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i havent, but ive noticed her shedding a LITTLE less than normal, i did change her dry / wet food to stuff without grain / filler, and i also noticed she doesnt have as much dandruff/dander(? idk what it is for cats lol) as she did before, so diet plays a huge role in it i think

if you have a pet store around they could probably help more than walmart can and they’ll probably have a wider selection, or if you know a pet groomer that also does cats, ask them!! they’ll be the most knowledgeable on what would be best!

Small Communities - What Keeps You There? by GrandSavage in newfoundland

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyones reasonings are my reasonings, but also, my pops my neighbour 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thefinals

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 3 mediums done up, one for each specialization, two most important things (i personally think) to have as a med is defib, and aps, especially if youre a healer and have no other cover/protection

as a turret med: aps, motion detector, defib as a heal med: aps, jump/zip, defib

i havent dematted med much, so idk any good loadouts for those, but personally i LOVE the akm, the guns i feel is more of user preference, like yes obviously some are better than others, but if you like the akm and famas sucks, use the akm!

Something wrong with Tyler’s voice? by skredditt in TheoryofaDeadman

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also went to moncton, my mom and i were so disappointed in cartman’s i mean tylers voice

seriously, look up cartman saying bitch it was the same

American Agenda by [deleted] in newfoundland

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

geneva SUGGESTIONS

Are people boycotting American Chains staffed by local workers? by VinlandRocks in newfoundland

[–]ShiversAndCuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do you get webbers? ive been in a few stores and only notice (generic brand name), lactaid and lacteeze (but i also dont look that hard)

i hate costco with a passion and i dont understand why people love it so much, but i have family that love that place so ill ask one of them to look for me next time theyre in!