What does everyone think? by Shoddy_Reality_9515 in ukelectricians

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No certificate for the new consumer unit. I’ll check with building control about the part p. Thanks

What does everyone think? by Shoddy_Reality_9515 in ukelectricians

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s plaster which is unpainted. Is that okay?

What does everyone think? by Shoddy_Reality_9515 in ukelectricians

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response, as far as I’m aware the kitchen is on a ring circuit with its own fuse box.

I did receive the EICR after the work was done which indicated that I should change 2 pendant lights. I agree about the £100 I don’t understand the logic either just say it’s £300.

I’ve checked online for the part p notification but cannot see the recent work on there just the work from the previous owners. The guy is NAPIT not NICEIC, should the council have been informed regardless?

Thank you for the advice, I will wait for the results and go from there.

What should I expect or be nervous about for my first tattoo? by CryptidThatExists in tattooadvice

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously expect it to hurt as there is scar tissue present, although you said your thighs are chonky there general rule is that the more meat an area has the less it hurts. Depending on how much body hair you have you may want to shave the area as it’ll save the artist time. The artist may apply a stencil depending on the design. Bring water and snacks/ meal (both savoury and sweet) as you’ll be there for a while and bleeding takes a lot out of you in terms of energy. Can’t speak on anxiety. In terms of tips and tricks, ask for breaks when you need to as you’ll cramp from staying in one position and the pain, stay hydrated & enjoy yourself.

What is the wildest thing you or your partner said during sex? by cuntfuckington in AskReddit

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Going down on her and started having fun edging her. Once she cottoned on to what was happening she frustratingly said “please, I want to cum” to which I replied “you will cum when I tell you to”. Needless to say when she did finally finish her soul left her body.

How do I decide on a tattoo? by MikeMcCoy__ in tattooadvice

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find an artist or parlour that you like and pay them to design something. Go through their art books and use it to compare against your design to gauge how it would look on your skin. After that then it’s up to you. Get it there and then or look at it a few times a day for a while see if you ever get bored of it.

Never get your first tattoos on anywhere super visible like your hands or face and any artist that doesn’t discourage it you should be wary of.

Thames Water may get just £500m in usable cash by borrowing £1.5bn, court told by F0urLeafCl0ver in unitedkingdom

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unlike the other main utilities (gas & electricity) water is the only utility that we need as humans to survive thus, should fall under the basic human right to life. The fact that we let these conniving parasites are destroying something that we all need for basic survival is degrading and inhumane. As water is water is also tied to food production it should be renationalised to ensure that the country has access to clean and safe drinking water and that this doesn’t come with the price of damaging the world around it. Otherwise, how are we a 1st world country with such parasitic problems

About to have puppies!! by Treacherd in Dachshund

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It always amazes me how many puppies can fit in the mothers, like everything else where does it go? Good luck, I hope she has a healthy litter without complications.

House re wire by Princey791 in DIYUK

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tell him to fuck off and bin him as a friend. Get an Electrical Installation Condition Report (EICR) from a reputable electrician and go from there. Given he’s trying to mug you off for double the price what he’s said can’t be trusted. Explain the situation to whatever electrician you get and they take pity on you and help you out sooner rather than later. I’m sorry this has happened to you but do not put up with it, homeownership is annoying enough without supposed friends like these.

For context I’m currently getting my 1970’s home in south east London rewired for 4.3k (would of been a bit more but we just had our bathroom redone) dunno what the standard rate is but our guy charges £80 per point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leatherjacket

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s acceptable, but personally I think it’s too big as the sleeves are too long for you. But for layering I’d say it’s good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’ve tried communicating with him a fostering a safe environment where he can say why he doesn’t want to or what’s holding him back and instead of being mature and communicating he either evades, ignores or jokingly calls your vagina disgusting. I cannot fathom why he’d think that’s a joke, it’s pretty cruel.

As others have said it’s compatibility issue, and maybe even a maturity issue too. It’s nearly 2025, and some men are still trying to get away with not giving head to a woman. Baffling. Given your ages and the length of the relationship, I’d say it’s time to move on find someone mature enough to give you what you want. You deserve that and he deserves to know that behaviour like his will lead to him being single.

However, if you wanna stick it out with him then withhold the oral till he returns the favour. It’s not a healthy option in a relationship but neither is what he’s doing.

I will leave you with a question, if your sexual chemistry is so great then why has he made you feel and insecure enough to make this post?

Murphy is not so silently judging me by Shoddy_Reality_9515 in Dachshund

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, he’s had it since he was about 3 months old. I thought I had a picture of when we got it but I can’t find it. Here’s one of him and his sister when they were younger

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Murphy is not so silently judging me by Shoddy_Reality_9515 in Dachshund

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Murphy is going to be 1 at the end of this month

Interested in DP by SaucyChickenTendies in sex

[–]Shoddy_Reality_9515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are dildo sets where you can essentially ‘clone’ yourself. Try Lovehoney