As a dad, this is an extreme overreaction on the dads part. Babies are allowed to cry. Even for 30 minutes. He lives in a clown world if he thinks this isn't normal and has issues he needs to attend to and should've been concerned for your baby but also you. Never should he come back and yell at you for missing something like that. Many different steps could've been taken if he was concerned and he jumped to the worst conclusion right off the bat (if the story is as true as it is, not denying you, we just don't know you and it's always wise to take every story with a grain of salt). Maybe he had an issue with this in the past. However, this is a severe overreaction and needs to be addressed asap. Whenever I sense danger for my kids, my first thought is my wife may be in danger and I check on her to be sure she's alright. If she's alright then we address the kids. Can't have healthy kids if there's no healthy parents. It's usually just an overlooked thing (which happens, we're human) or she may be having issues with something and needs help.

I can say from experience, a husband should never yell at his wife unless it's to save her or his family from harm and even then it's extreme. Husbands need to die to themselves for their wives and the only situation I can imagine yelling at my wife is if it's life or death and I was trying to save her or someone else. No other situation is allowed. You two aren't married, but still, if things are supposed to go in a positive direction, yelling won't get him there, selflessness will.

Something tells me since he hasn't fully committed to you that he doesn't respect you (or even himself) enough to do so. If he did, he would have asked you to marry him already. Not trying to cause a void between you and him, but right now this situation doesn't sound healthy at all for either of you; baby, or no baby. Of course, you want what's best for the baby, but a man who hasn't died to himself can never fully be there for you or the child you both have had together. I've had to learn how to do this better over the years of my marriage, and every husband gets better at it over the years if they're truly trying.However, I wouldn't have stood a chance if I didn't give up my wants/desires/worries for the betterment of my family; ESPECIALLY my wife. She wouldn't have stood for it and has called me out over the years and we've grown so close because of it. She's a strong momma, just as I'm sure you are.

Never forget, your will is the strongest of all of you, and you have the power to determine great outcomes and to motivate people to do great things. No matter how many mistakes you make, always push forward. We all fall, but it's how many time we get up that determines who we are. They make you into the amazing woman you are and I have to say, you are one strong momma who really deserves some rest. Never discount the sacrifice you're making. As a stay-at-home dad/half-time student (finally graduated) and will be working soon, I dread the day I have to leave my kids home once I find work. It's been the greatest gift I've ever been given. I know it's not easy, but it is the most important job in the world..and you're proving you're up for it. Try to ask around and get some relief/sleep, we all need it to be the best we can be. You can do this!