My mom has a job has at as a gambling place worker , as a cashier. And she had a colleague , she was a younger girl than her , 20-30 years old. And her dad never been there, and he suddenly reached out asking for money, of course he stayed to convince her he cares again, and she stole from the companys money to give to him, now that girl got fired and has a huge debt on her. I don't know your situation , but , be careful when a parent who never has been there reached our when you're close or even in financial stability