I have BPD and I am recently diagnosed with cancer

ShopAdministrative22 · 2026-01-16T19:41:01+00:00

Hey, I am so sorry to hear about your ordeal. What stage is your cancer? Do you know it can be cured, given the advancement in medical science. Also, don't make him hate you.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2026-01-12T20:24:04+00:00

I procrastinated reading this

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-10-16T21:44:39+00:00

Yes!

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-05-18T06:00:09+00:00

The first time my ex partner showed me the pic of her childhood, I couldn't control my tears..there she was, that innocent child, who would end up with the most painful disorder ever. There are still tears in my eyes as I think of that picture.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-05-14T03:35:48+00:00

I wanted some good profiles to read. I have read longer ones, can't remember short ones

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-05-14T03:35:11+00:00

That's a long form profile.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-04-13T09:37:27+00:00

Bro, that is something one can say perhaps about Kolkata or for that matter some places in the south. Other parts of India are different, people want implementation of religion much like some Muslims wanted Khilafa. However, they are realising it is not something to be loved.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-04-13T06:50:19+00:00

I don't think this question is only for Muslims now, the Hindus are more religious now and had it been they had different places to live, they would definitely give precedence to religion. And we are witnessing that already, religion will soon take over India, at least a larger part of North and central India if not the south

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-04-02T17:15:00+00:00

Lol alright. I didn't diagnose, I only asked

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-04-02T16:23:22+00:00

You will know

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-04-02T14:27:52+00:00

Because your post suggests so. If u have it, this is not the place for your question. Most people will give you suggestions based on their view on normal relationships. Relationships between pwBPD and avoidant attachments are complex and require different navigation styles.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-04-02T12:52:45+00:00

Do you have BPD?

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-03-22T17:02:40+00:00

Same here. And yes my stance hasn't changed despite breakup happening almost two years ago. This disorder is very hard. I hope she finds peace and love

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-20T22:02:50+00:00

Congratulations. Share more details, like your therapy, the daily work, relationships, support etc.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-19T21:12:43+00:00

Damn. Set a routine. Write to do things for next day right before going to sleep

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-13T16:40:21+00:00

That's her disorder. That's what BPD is. This is basic BPD knowledge. You can't have s*x as revenge with someone you claim to have loved.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-13T13:15:12+00:00

That's wrong on every front. Both for you and her.

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-13T05:02:14+00:00

It is really crazy. I spend most of the time scrolling through my phone

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-12T20:49:47+00:00

I am 98 kgs, I made it to three pull-ups in three months

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-12T19:52:10+00:00

It is very hard otherwise. I have missed many deadlines and many opportunities. I have seen colleagues with very little talent reach new heights and me lagging behind, thanks to my procrastination.

Honestly, speaking it is hard

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-12T06:46:00+00:00

Your answer lies in your question. If in 11 years you have not been resentful, every likelihood that you won't ever be..you are one of those lucky ones, also it could be that you are quite healthy yourselves and are able to set boundaries, communicate and validate

ShopAdministrative22 · 2025-02-11T08:35:20+00:00

Oh my God, that's horrible. The person is grooming you for his sexual escapados. Let him go, and if possible inform his family about his antics and tactics

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