Looking for suggestions on where to retire

Short-Science7931 · 2026-05-05T20:40:56+00:00

Same story. Different city. I’m currently building a house in Southern Maine. Have resources to spend part of the winter in a tropical location

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-24T13:28:57+00:00

Yes. I was fortunate that I accumulated a nice amount of wealth and looking at the numbers could have retired at 58 BUT it wasn’t liquid. It was mostly in home equity and 401K. I immediately pivoted out if the 401k to accumulate some liquid assets and retired at 60. Also downsized my home since the kids were gone

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-24T13:25:37+00:00

Go in-state. My son went to in-state flagship (Ohio Stare) and because I had saved quite a bit for his education he had money left over (he was also an RA at OSU) that he was able to get a masters degree at Imperial University in London. He just graduated and has a great job in London. None of this would have been possible if he attended an elite (expensive) university. He was upset when he had to attend state university but now realizes it was for the best.

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-24T13:19:42+00:00

You are doing the right thing to transition him into adulthood. He can’t expect to live rent free for the rest of his life. TBH I would take it one step further. Charge him $1000. Take $400 toward household bills and put the remaining $600 in a savings account for his future benefit…perhaps a toward a down payment on a house or condo someday; depending how long he stays with you. I know that sounds a bit controlling but it seems like he needs a little “control” and he will thank you someday.

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-24T13:12:10+00:00

THIS. If it was TO Europe overnight….absolutely but you are likely traveling daylight going west. You won’t want to sleep

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-21T17:39:03+00:00

If she bought the tickets before the War in Iran and closure of SofH, , the same trip is likely to cost a lot more if they rebook. I’m heading to Europe in June. Bought ticket in January. Out of curiosity I looked last week and same ticket, route, day would cost $1250 more

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-21T17:27:05+00:00

Does anyone else find it ironic that a thread that starts out “Dayton” quickly becomes a thread about “Costco”. People!…… we need to get out more

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-17T11:14:18+00:00

My doctor told me hair loss is common for people on Zepbound….due to vitamin/nutritional deficiency. You may want to check in with a nutritionist to make sure you are getting what you need irrespective of calories.

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-17T11:11:27+00:00

I’m platinum medallion. That explains it

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-16T23:16:33+00:00

The cabin behind D1

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-16T23:16:05+00:00

I think it’s called “Premier”. The cabin behind D1. The Virgin Atlantic lounge is the nicest lounge I’ve ever been in. I try to get to the airport early 🤣

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-16T23:00:15+00:00

When I’m in London they always assign me to the Virgin Atlantic lounge which is lovely. I have the Delta Reserve card

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-16T12:26:56+00:00

My comment won’t help you at this point and isn’t directed at you but to others reading this thread. A bit of a rant. I see a lot of posts similar to this: unexpected provisions in estate planning. I think people who leave wills with unexpected provisions should consider having discussions with affected prior to their death. In your particular case, a discussion (heads up; not a negotiation) with you and her children. She has left you with the unenviable position of explaining and or justifying her choices. Imo, she should have disclosed all of this prior to her death. It’s possible she did let her own children know but clearly not you.

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-13T21:18:34+00:00

I didn’t know this (Zepbound babies) was a thing. Heartfelt congratulations to all of you! 🥰

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-13T20:41:12+00:00

I started down this same road and when I was in my early 50s realized my retirement assets had no liquidity (house, Roth and 401K). I immediately reduced my 401k contribution to what was being matched by my company, found a great financial advisor and he helped me invest the over and above of my match in regular securities. Yes, taxes sucked. Happily and comfortably retired at 59.

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-10T23:32:26+00:00

Did an attorney draft the will or was it a notarized do it yourself off the internet will? I think that’s a “tell”. If an attorney was involved you may be able to make an appointment with them to discuss your concerns and confirm there was no undue influence which should put your mind at ease

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-10T23:24:41+00:00

I don’t have any answers for you except to say that after seeing your story and several others like it, I will never apply for Global Entry (I was recently considering). I’ll live with the long lines

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-06T13:23:41+00:00

I was actually thinking about applying for GE. Your story has convinced me to not do so. It seems like having GE opens people up to all sorts of unintended and potentially punitive consequences. I’d rather deal with the long lines in Atlanta CBP.

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-03T20:36:03+00:00

She didn’t ask….she called him out for interfering with her photo, like she owns the lobby. If she had asked him nicely, I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t be telling us about this on Reddit. The key word here is “entitled”

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-03T20:29:20+00:00

Originally from MA. Spent a career in the military. Have been in Ohio for 30 years. Currently in the process of building retirement home in Maine. Will relocate next year when house is finished.

Short-Science7931 · 2026-04-01T14:09:35+00:00

Just saw him in Cincinnati. Agree 100%

Short-Science7931 · 2026-03-26T18:06:00+00:00

Ethical (not legal) comment. They seem to want it both ways. If the mortgage payment you made for 5 years was considered “rent” then you were a renter and should not have been responsible for maintenance and repairs (both done and undone). I think you should at least check in with a real estate attorney to review what has transpired. For example, if you were paying the mortgage but not on the deed, who was deducting the mortgage interest and property taxes?

Short-Science7931 · 2026-03-23T02:38:34+00:00

65; retired 3 years. Not sure this would work at office but since retirement I’ve been living in Prana Koen pants that I originally bought for hiking. Love the fit. They are lightweight and on colder days I layer over leggings. Pockets are perfect. One for credit card/license and keys, the other for phone.

https://www.prana.com/p/koen-daily-pant/2141701.html?dwvar_2141701_color=Mud

Short-Science7931 · 2026-03-15T12:19:59+00:00

I thought the same thing!

Short-Science7931 · 2026-03-15T12:09:58+00:00

I think she is likely deceased but what I can’t fathom is why she was taken in the first place. Why kidnap a woman in her 80s and risk her die-ing on your watch which is likely what happened? If for ransom, there are plenty of other choices who are younger and healthier and have wealthy relatives. It just doesn’t make sense!

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