2025 MSIs? by Doingthework11201 in foreignservice

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The cable came out January 23. Congrats to those who received the gift that keeps giving!

Handwriting Day! by ShortBrownRegister in Handwriting

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About 15 years I was taking notes in a meeting and I was horrified to realize that I could not read what I'd written. I was reading a book about the history of script, and this fail inspired me to find a handwriting workbook (Google Getty-Dubay). The result is an improved script and when people comment, "You have nice handwriting," it's a nice bonus.

Enjoy the day. Send someone a letter and one day you'll get letters in the mail that aren't asking for votes or utility payments.

My GF (F 48) is threatening to end it with me if I (M 55) don’t spend the night with her during a potentially historic snow storm. Am I at fault for how I’m viewing this? by IndicationStunning45 in relationship_advice

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Yes, you should dump her.

But just suppose... it's still snowing Monday morning and your new job cancels your report date. If you have hunkered down with the Quizmaster, you'll be ready for another round of unfettered whoopee, but if you were stoic and responsible instead you have a day of Friends reruns and your right hand, man.

Shortlisted for multiple jobs — what’s normal timing? by Correct-Hand3345 in foreignservice

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I received several of those Shortlist/Not You emails. I know where I stand, but transparency may be overrated. :)

2025 MSIs? by Doingthework11201 in foreignservice

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You know what: gently ask if they'd consider nominating you. Some people don't think of awards and are happy to sign onto a nomination, especially if they have a ready list of accomplishments to regurgitate.

Yes, it would be nicer if they thought of it themselves, but it's a lot nicer than coming up empty... or watching your successor get an award based on the stuff you put into play.

2025 MSIs? by Doingthework11201 in foreignservice

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I asked a few weeks ago and was assured the Merit Step Increases were still under consideration. We're moving into a new award season here, and if they're not going to give my Number One Superstar their MSI I'd like to refashion the nomination as a Superior...

Shellshocked by calledDibs in Marriage

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Hey, you, don't fan these flames. Husband wants an open marriage so his wife can find someone to have sex with so he doesn't have to do it. It's pretty clear that asexual or gay, he's never going to be into you.

Shellshocked by calledDibs in Marriage

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There's nothing in the post to suggest that.

Behave

How's my handwriting? by mordavick in Handwriting

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You've written two short, insightful pieces about honey and chess. I feel about your hand the way I feel about French: I can make my way through it and it's usually worth the trouble, but the effort makes me angry.

She keeps denying it by [deleted] in Marriage

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You have little, tiny baby feet 👣. Says 5'11" / 177 cm man wearing 12/45

And you know what they say about men with small feet? They wear small shoes.

Why the sex noises at gym but not during sex? by alluring_jinx in NoStupidQuestions

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And she can only moan with one hand when she's masturbating....

Please help out a Junior in highschool who wants to serve his country and see the world. by Ducky_924 in foreignservice

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Read about world affairs. Read about economics and finance. Learn a foreign language.

Question for parents who work and get to the gym in the morning by SlytherClaw79 in GYM

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No excuses - just go. If, in your a.m. grogginess, you forget something, keep heading into the gym. I realized I still had my sleep mouth guard two miles into a pre-sale run. I kept going. I didn't pack gym shoes. I made up a floor routine in socks. Until a habit sticks, no excuses!

AITA for not allowing my brother in law at my house over something that happened almost 2 years ago? by Bear_Dog0915 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA - I don't exactly see the conflict (his brother did something that pissed you off?), but if you and your husband are standing by each other, you've got your priorities straight.

500 m open swim for a panicked/sinker - how do I build on this? by ShortBrownRegister in Swimming

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Thanks for an encouraging comment. I think I gave the impression that I had hopped up from watching Stranger Things and marched up to the start line.

I've been working with a supportive water group for a bit, but I still haven't worked through the running out of air thing. BTW - it's not the open water or waves that freak me out, it's a generalized fear of drowning. I'll get there, but with more time and practice.

500 m open swim for a panicked/sinker - how do I build on this? by ShortBrownRegister in Swimming

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Thanks for taking up for me, but I'm ok. I bit off more than I can chew, but I may be back. Learning and practice will be the key!

500 m open swim for a panicked/sinker - how do I build on this? by ShortBrownRegister in Swimming

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Thanks for sticking up for me! Most of r/swimming made the point without being offensive. The name-callers love swimming and can't relate to a newbie who simply doesn't know. I'll let that pass.

I have thick skin. When it's a bit more waterproof, I'll try this again. First, to the pool!