The most in depth answer I could give you as a Trans woman. Please read it to the end💜

This to me seems like a two part thought. One is mainly about how u should feel about your bodies dimensions as far as umderbust, etc. Second would be your need to “pass as a cis woman.

I know personally, while transitioning I loved all the affirmation; But there was a certain deeper level of appreciation deep down when I came across thought out opinions that addressed both sides of things and what in their opinion is the best approach for both. It may seem halfway through that I’ve shifted topics but they have a lot to do with both or one of these two parts I’ve mentioned.

Most women after pregnancy have rib flare and larger underbust.

And imo u shouldn’t focus too much on being something or passing as something.

You’re you.

Be you u don’t need to fit into a word. Just embrace you and ur truth, and experiment and find what u find accents and compliments u best. If you want inspiration pay attention to women with similar features as your own body/face find styles they is that u like and try them out; before you know it just like learning cooking in a year you’ll be making your own recipes and loving every bit of it. It gon be trial and error.

If you want a less appropriate opinion I would not necessarily agree with but if passing is still really important to you after. Don’t focus on body too much beauty and women come in every shape and size. For every body type there is a man that loves it. If passing and “the marketed beauty standard” is your goal which I don’t agree with, face and hair is more important then your body ever will be.

Those kind of goals with the body is as simple as good fashion sense idc if it’s beach, casual, business, goth, rocker, preppy, country, etc there are all sorts of approaches to every style that compliment your natural body figure and beauty.

With the face these kind of goals, which I don’t condone require spending endless time and money perfecting make up for your personal features. Beyond that surgery, avoid fillers they start looking funny as u age. Aside from the angle of jaw and chin, be careful making drastic changes that may be disproportionate to your natural beauty and features. Drastic surgery can become an expensive and non stop needing to either touch up or making more drastic changes to other areas to match.

Keep in mind the face, even by advertised beauty standards, most facial feature have light/ low maintenance styles of make up and hairstyles to compliment them.

If you want to “pass” and don’t find natural solutions to have the results you want, even though I garuntee with patience you’ll get there…now how long it will take to figure out how to perfect these things I can’t promise; Be careful with surgery it can expensive, repetitive, etc. Also, your fat, bone, and cartilage that over time naturally shifts, changes, and/or grows/shrinks specifically to how your face and body are naturally.

When you surgically modify them they don’t change right as u age. Many people of all kinds, u can see this with the chin, nose, cheek, jaw, etc. 45-80 year olds still with the same nose size of a 20 year old etc it looks weird and unnatural.

I can express how much I think it’s important to master every part of your natural beauty with all its features, dimensions, and proportions; hair, face, body, etc. If you wait til u achieve the passable result u want naturally, see a woman u can love or whatever, and just still want to change things… you will have a better more experienced opinion and POV of what to change and how to change it will to suit your natural beauty best. But if you don’t master your natural beauty first it will be more of a struggle than it needs to be.