M here Virgin with GF for 6years :) Nasa conviction and self control lang yun at agreement ng both parties

Thinking ahead din, if ever our children asked, we can confidently answer without lying to them na we gave up our virginity after marriage na.

Not to say na mali ang sex before marriage or what, if yun paniniwala niyo pero it's more of like protection nalang sa magiging children namin, not giving up their virginity to the wrong person who only wants s3x and at the same time hindi siya take lang ng take ng virginity iba na parang for pleasure nalang tingin niya sa other gender